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fn1646 · 06/09/2020 11:00

I’m just looking for some advice and I don’t even know where to start.

I fell pregnant in October at uni and only found out I was pregnant around March/April time. I was in a very bad place financially, to the point where I was eating maybe one meal a week and even that was pasta. I don’t even know how I survived, let alone created a whole other human. Coronavirus happened, we were all kicked out of uni accoms so I was sofa surfing while heavily pregnant for a while and going between friends houses. Decided I would not go back to uni in September, instead I would take a year out. I had to make my £1,500 maintenance loan last me from mid April until now. I wasn’t eligible for any sort of benefits until now because I was technically still “a student“ and students aren’t eligible for benefits.

So I’ve now completely ran out of money, and my universal credit payment has finally been approved however it takes 5 weeks to clear. I’m not eligible for an advance payment because I had an advance when I claimed UC when I was 16. I’m lost. I’m still sofa surfing, but now with a small baby, and I don’t have a penny to my name. I’m not eligible for food banks because I “technically” live with my mum and she’s very well off however she refuses to help me in any way shape or form. I can’t work right now due to the pandemic & the issue of childcare. I do not know what to do. I am at my wits end. My baby gets through £70-80 worth of food a month which doesn’t sound like much but when you have nothing, £70 is a massive expense.

Please can someone guide me as to what I can do to make sure my baby and I make it to October. Is there anything, any sort of free baby food schemes or hardship grants or anything like that. We’re running out of options, running out of places to stay & people to help. I just seriously fear for mine and my baby’s life and I don’t know what to do

CarolineMumsnet · 06/09/2020 11:46

Hello everyone

We've had a number of reports from people concerned about this thread so, as we usually do in these circs, we're putting our heads round the door with some important reminders.

Right now we can't see any evidence to indicate that the OP isn't above board – if we did, we'd remove the thread straight away. But the truth is that, sadly, we at MNHQ can't know with 100% certainty that any poster is genuine, no matter who they are or how long they have been here. As frustrating as it is, we're not able to vouch for anyone here.

So we always ask users to remember that not everyone on the internet is who they say they are – and remind folk not to give more to another poster, either financially (in cash or gifts) or emotionally (in time or care and support) than they'd be prepared to lose if things went wrong. We strongly advise against parting with any cash or giving away your personal details, and if you receive a PM which makes you uneasy - report it to us and we’ll take a look.

Sorry to hijack your thread briefly there, OP – we really hope you get it all sorted soon. In the meantime, you might find some useful information on our guide for dealing with financial difficulty

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