I feel quite sick and I really need some advice on what to do here.
I have 3 kids and the rule in our house is no smartphones until 12 years old. My eldest turned 12 a few months ago she is the only one to have one so far.
found out tonight that my middle DD ( age 10) has taken (probably call it stealing i suppose) my husbands old phone and has been keeping it in her room, messaging friends.
Bad enough lying and sneaking around then but when I checked the search history she has accessed pornhub and other porn sites on a few separate occasions.
i feel quite sick that she's seen that stuff and I'm not sure what i should do or say next. Am i being naiive will most kids be doing that!?
she said that Momo made her wonder what all this stuff was and the kids at school talk about killing and sex stuff on the internet and she just wanted to have a look
if anyone is there with any good advice please hit me with it I am freaking out xx