Why is my husband so horriblr

[bugspigs003]

My dh has just asked me if ive lost any weight yet and when will my big fat belly go. He is asking this as i sit cuddling my one day old baby. He is being such a dick just sat in the chair on otherside of room all through labour and birth. Brought me some flowers and then shouted you havent even put the fucking flowers in the vase! He hates all tge names on my listwhich all mean something personal to me and when i ask him what names he likes he says he doesnt know so looks at lists on his phone and throws random names at me demanding explanation as to why i dont like them, yet when i ask him why he doesnt like my list he says they r just stupid. !!i could go on!!

He seems angry at you for some reason or perhaps he’s angry at himself and is freaking out, treat him like a scared boy and state calmly what you need?

Have you got some family that you can phone to come round? No one should be putting up with that!

I am sorry that you are having to listen to this shit when you should be focusing on your new baby. Congratulations btw.
Do you have rl supper? If he has always been this much of an arse then I doubt things will get better with the stress of a new baby.
I have never posted ltb before and I hate that I am even suggesting it to you, but he does not sound like the kind of man who will be a good father. Please know you and your baby deserve more.

bugspigs003 I hope you managed some sleep last night and that friends and family will be in to support you today and over the next few weeks.

OP I'm not going to give any advice on your relationship (other than his behaviour is unacceptable), I just wanted to virtual hug you.
My mother made a vile (loud) comment about my stomach an hour after having a c section and I was utterly mortified and deeply embarrassed.
It really hurt my feelings and stuck with me and I'm sorry it's happened to you also. Your body is amazing, it has grown that baby, it is beautiful.