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2 year old saw us pull a body from the sea

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ClipClapClop · 01/10/2017 09:01

My two year old DD was with us at the beach recently when we saw someone floating face down in the water. DH and I pulled the poor man from the sea and waited for the police - and DD was with us the whole time.

I don't know how to talk to her to make sure this doesn't become a big deal for her. She's talked about the poorly man and the police officers helping him a few times since. We've acknowledged what she saw, and said we hope the poorly man is feeling better now, as well as showing her a video I took earlier of the day of her happily splashing in the water.

Does anyone have any advice about anything else I should do? I'm wary of making it an even bigger deal when there's a chance she'll forget all about it.

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StealthPolarBear · 01/10/2017 11:51

Op well done for what you did and I'm sorry you weren't able to save him. Are you and dh getting any help yourselves?

ClipClapClop · 01/10/2017 13:02

Stealth, DH and I are talking about it (out of earshot) and I think we'll be involved with the coroner's inquest. I think it will help to have the full picture in time. I don't feel particularly traumatised now the shock has worn off but will seek help in some form if anything lingers.

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QueenUnicorn · 01/10/2017 19:54

I have a clear memory from age 2 as well. A nice memory luckily.

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