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May Babies... part 2!

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GeorginaA · 14/07/2004 19:19

... just because we can't stop yammering on

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kbaby · 13/08/2004 17:05

Egypt thats the same way that im swaddling dp does it a triangle way though.

Not sure whats wrong with dd this week. For the past few weeks shes been really good and hardly crying at all just happy to play,sleep or lay on her mat. But this week shes cried quite a lot and also slept loads. Shes not happy to play and even cries when I hold her. Not sure if shes tired and thats why she so grouchy. She falls asleep and then just starts crying for no reason. Her temp is ok.
Shes like she was now as she was as a newborn.. Very strange.

libb · 13/08/2004 17:13

kbaby, my DS has been exactly the same this week, lots of feeds and waking at 2am again (we were getting through to 4am for a couple of weeks - can't work out if it was the busy weekend last week or because DP is off. He also doesn't like napping in his bouncer at the moment which is very frustrating as I can tell he is tired. He dozes off and then wakes with a start. He also loves dribbling and sucking his fingers a lot.

Could he be suffering early signs of teething perhaps?

libb · 13/08/2004 17:18

He also keeps blowing raspberries (might have learnt that one from me ) and the dribble flies everywhere!

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Judd · 13/08/2004 17:20

kbaby - we had a "day of crying" last sunday. Could be a developmental thing - like growing pains- apparently happens around 12 weeks (and also at 15 and 23 incase anyone's interested !!).
Bozza - thanks for the Graco info. So glad I don't have to move him yet, it was his head I was concerned about. Even DD at nearly 3 still has a floppy head in her car seat when she's asleep - I have to turn round and just shove her forehead back! (sounds cruel but its better than her dangling forward).
So glad its Friday and 5pm. If only DH would get off the phone and switch it off, instead of being Mr Indispensable !! Full steam ahead for bedtime

Bozza · 13/08/2004 17:22

DD has started dribbling in a big way and putting things in her mouth. DS had his first tooth at 4 months so we might not be too long.

Yes egypt - I meant something about DD's sleep. She should be going longer than 1.5 hours in the night when she's going more like 2.5 - 3 in the day.

Bozza · 13/08/2004 17:23

between feeds I mean. Sorry not with it today.

Egypt · 13/08/2004 18:47

perhaps she's just having a little setback or a growth spurt bozza. if you were having good nights i'm sure she'll quickly return to them.

i hate this time of night. dd is so grumpy and wont be put down. she was fed an hour ago and is still puking. shes tired but if i put her to bed now she wont sleep and just scream. 7.30-8 is the magic time! plus she needs a bath anyway. it's weird but everynight, dd loves her bath, doesnt mind being dried, but as soon as i put her sleepsuit on she screams, cries through her feed and cries until she falls asleep - which is q quickly, luckily. is she doing this because she's tired, because the routine has taught her that bedtime is soon - because she hates going to bed or what?? it baffles me.

Egypt · 13/08/2004 18:49

tried altering bathtimes too, still she screams on cue!

kbaby · 13/08/2004 19:55

I'm not sure if she is teething. Shes starting dribbling and has to chew on things. She keeps trying to chew all her soft toys. Poor pigletts ear is getting battered. Just taken her temp now as this evening she's crying loads and its 37.1 via her armpit. which according to what to expect is a little high for a armpit reading.

What I dont get is that if babies are tired why dont they just go to sleep. DD has to grizzle or cry until shes knackered and then shell sleep.

Twiglett · 13/08/2004 19:58

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Egypt · 13/08/2004 20:18

i could cut and paste your last message into mine twiglett - i will!

"DD also drooling (like the taps been turned on ) and chomping on her fists"

there, now don't do me for plagerism (sp)

well, she did it AGAIN! it definitely starts with the bodysuit. she screams so much i cant feed her properly after. aha - shall feed her THEN dress her tomorrow. then try her on the breast again, after. tonight she just kept pulling off me to cry. such a tired cry too, bless her heart. she went to sleep at 7.30. at least i get to watch corrie in peace. was expecting to see eastenders actually but blinking olympics has taken over the world

kbaby · 13/08/2004 20:32

Breastfeeding is my wepon against crying. If DD's crying and all else fails to calm her down a quick 5 mins on the breast soothes her, Dont quite know what im going to do when I stop breastfeeding.

As dd is sucking and chewing everything within site, what do I do about sterilising. I know it may sound silly but I really dont know. I have to sterilise dummies etc so what do I do about Piglett??

Twiglett · 13/08/2004 21:24

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spots · 13/08/2004 21:32

Egypt it's not that she's in a huff being taken away from her lovely bath is it? Our DD will cry if we take her away from a game she's enjoying.

spots · 13/08/2004 21:33

Twiglett, why is sterilising a con?

Linnet · 13/08/2004 23:52

Spots there is another thread somewhere, I hope this is the one that twiglett is referring to, where it's mentioned that in America they don't sterilise bottles at all. Another mumsnetter in America had a dd born prematurely and from the moment she was born none of her bottles were sterilised. In America they just put the bottles through the dishwasher and that's considered good enough.
I know a Dr wh has 3 kids and she's never sterilised anything and they're all fine.

with dd1 I sterilised her bottles until she was 1 but I didn't do anything else, didn't do dummies, well ok occasionally I did them, didn't do cutlery or plates when she started weaning. By the time they are picking things up off the floor and putting them in their mouths there doesn't always seem to be any point, although I plan on sticking to sterilising dd2's bottles until she's a year or at least nearly a year.

Dd2 also chews on her hands and dribbles a lot. Can this be considered a sign of teething? or is it just experimental?
Dd1 got her first 2 teeth through at the same time when she was 4 months old but I don't remember her chewing her hands or dribbling as much as dd2 does.

Dd2 has times when she's tired and I'm loathe to put her to bed because she still has another bottle to have and it's to short a time since the last bottle to feed her again. When she got her MenC on Monday she went to bed early and didn't have her bedtime bottle, I thought I'd just leave her and then feed her when she woke, fully expecting her to get up during the night starving but she didn't she slept right through. She usually has her last bottle at around 8pm and in bed by 9pm or sometimes 8.30pm. But from 7pm onwards she can be really whingey, but she has a bottle at 5pm so I don't want to feed her too soon. I guess it will sort itself out in time.

Had a great day today it was a lovely hot sunny day and I actually got to lie out on my sun lounger for the first time since I'd bought it It was bliss, dd2 was having a nap, dd1 was playing with her friend I just lay in the sun and relaxed. Will probably be the only proper day of summer that we get though.

I don't swaddle dd2 she goes to bed in a sleepsuit and has her blanket over her in one layer. She's still in her moses basket but is getting longer and I don't think she'll be in it for very much longer. Mind you it's not been as hot up here as it has in England, if it had been really really hot it might be different.

Egypt · 14/08/2004 09:54

spots, she is fine when we take her out of the bath, dry her, put her nappy on....it's just the sleepsuit! bizarre. she doesnt really like having her arms pulled through sleeves, and i think at that time of night, it is worse, as she is tired. also, i have put her to bed at 7.30 the last 2 nights and she has woken at 8.30 precisely! don't know why. she used to go to bed at 8-8.30 and not wake for hours. i must be putting her to bed too early. how strange. think shall try and get her to have a little sleep b4 bath, then get her to last until 8o/c. babies are such amazing things aren't they? how does she know!?

Twiglett · 14/08/2004 10:03

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Egypt · 14/08/2004 11:03

yes it does, but these are short sleeves!!!!

Egypt · 14/08/2004 11:05

gawd, just read the sterilising thread. i worry like mad if i touch her bottle teats with my fingers after sterilising. honestly. the amount of germs that must be on the things she sucks, including my fingers.......!

Bozza · 14/08/2004 14:22

I'm sterilising bottles but leave it at that. Don't use the teat tongs either! DD woke up 4 times last night but only fed 3 times so an improvement.

spots · 14/08/2004 14:26

reckon as a non dishwasher household that I will keep sterilising too... I sort of love our steam steriliser, it's so easy and a bit special!

Linnet · 14/08/2004 21:59

Ah Twiglett that's a new thread that I hadn't seen. But it's Kateandthegirls that I remember from another thread saying that her dd was premature and nothing was sterilised.

We're also a non dishwasher house. We have sterilising bottles from Mothercare, I think I mentioned them before. You just clean the bottle add some water put it all together, in a certain way, then pop it in the microwave to sterilise, they're fab. I love them. the bottles all came with their own little tongs to put in with the bottles but gradually over the weeks they've broken and we're down to only 2 tongs left now.

I don't think Dh even uses the tongs when putting the bottles together, I try not to be in the kitchen when he's doing them though because he puts them back together in a different way from me and I get annoyed with him not doing it the "proper" i.e my way, lol