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Grow old with me! The best is yet to be. Come and join the 40+ mums plus babies, toddlers etc in the snug where tea, cake and sympathy are being served.

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somewherebecomingrain · 02/10/2013 06:57

We are 40+ mummies sharing all the highs and lows of our autumn crocus babies. Also sharing tips and information (most crying is tiredness!) and jokes. Please join us!

None are so old as those who have outlived enthusiasm
You are only young once, but you can stay immature indefinitely
It's sad to grow old, but nice to ripen.

PS this thread title was created by eagleray, and she also found the quotes.

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rosiedays · 27/10/2013 20:53

Oh goat! Hugs xx
Knackered here too! Dd has decided she can only sleep if my boob is in her mouth,II'm rubbish at proper co-sleeping as I just don't sleep. Been leaning half in half out of cot for past few nights. If she stirs and boob is not rootable instant full on meltdown.
We went to dive show yesterday and she fed 6 times in 7 hours, proper 15/20 min feeds. .. I've stopped counting at home as it's just constant. She seems to have forgotten about her thumb. .. I've started putting it to her mouth but she's not
having it at sll!!!
Dh has been beyond unless. .. words will be had very soon. I expect very very little but i need some help. He's been out all day, I settled dd tonight, went back to lounge, all toys still out on the floor and he's UNDER the blanket playing fuckin fifa! Asked what was for dinner! Told to fuck
off (not in quite those words) and I've
gone to bed.

Every thing hurts ( especially my nipples) and I've had enough. :(

Yom bassel :(

scarecrow22 · 27/10/2013 21:22

oh goat and Rosie so so sorry for all the exhaustion.
goat how have you not gone insane with sleep.deprivation ( and worry??) Have you done samples? When.is the next appointment? Thanks and Brew
Rosie sorry about FIFA - sounds addictive. Or is dh addicted? And is Rosebud truly eating all that time or suckling for comfort but not drawing much milk? Is your supply okay or are you stressed or poorly...? Try and only use one boob in.any hour slot to give the other a break. And Lansinoh is your friend! And.drink.lots and lots.
btw so pleased awful remnants gone.

scarecrow22 · 27/10/2013 21:26

any thoughts about pre Xmas meet days? Guessing Weds best for Goat? Anybody else got day of week preferences/no-nos?
should we aim.for first week in December? V flexible, just punting ideas....

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scarecrow22 · 28/10/2013 07:08

I've waited til after 7 which makes it totally fine to have my second double shot coffee, right?

EagleRay · 28/10/2013 07:39

Joining you for coffee scarecrow! Am in the snug - we shared it with a chicken earlier, who laid an egg on the cushion!

Fly home tomorrow. Will post properly then. Meanwhile big wave x

somewherebecomingrain · 28/10/2013 13:42

Re Xmas meet weds before end of term good for me. So 4, 11 , 18 all poss for me.

rosie have same situation re root able nipple. It is very tying. Getting to the stage where more independence wd be good.

Sorry for all those sleeping poorly.

Xx

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scarecrow22 · 28/10/2013 14:05

4, 11 and 18 Dec all good for us. T going into isolation for weeks before!

blueblackdye · 28/10/2013 14:28

Can do 4 and 11 Dec but not 18. Very lazy today. Counter effect of weeks running around !!!

GoatBongoAnonymous · 28/10/2013 19:30

Not sure what days I am working at the mo in early December. We will be doing auditions and I have to do 5 days and at present they could be any. I will let you all know when I do! Actually, I know I am not doing Tuesdays. Are they any good or are Wednesdays better?

BG did 9 straight hours last night. Shame he fell asleep at 6 so that he was up at 3!!!

scarecrow22 · 28/10/2013 20:09

from.memory, Tuesdays good for me. Not Mondays.or Fridays (unless you want dd unleashed on you ;) )

Goat sorry another shocker. We're upbeat 5.20 last two days. Infernal clocks.

Wonderful day today. Yom assel. Big 'normous soft play with lively nct friend this morning, lots of sleeping by children, and blustery rainy scoot/run/play in park this afternoon in rain and wind so all cosy and outdoors-tired this evening. Tom tried pizza and wore a gorgeous snuggly hat. dd scooted along drinking dregs of my hot choc looking like she should be in New York. oh, and this:

DD, after doing a.wee on potty: "what's a wee wee worth?"
me: "a Smartie"
dd: "Not a Smaaartie. I'm bored of Smarties."

epic fail.or.genius? You decide.

rosiedays · 28/10/2013 20:39

Definitely genius :) bless her, is she mostly dry now? I've forgotten all about potty training :)

I'm watching rosebud sleep and counting my blessings. :) she's beautiful. X

Bbd love the party pic's :) did you make his costume? He looks sooo handsome. :)

Somewhere what do you do? Up till last week she'd spit it out and fuss till i moved or covered! Now she want it just where she can move her head to drink! So much for dropping a night feed at 3 months. .... nights are a1 long constant feed!!

rosiedays · 28/10/2013 20:53

Eagle looking forward to hearing about your trip. The snug is perfect:) I used to sit in a very similar sung often. Waiters never leathery Grin
Enjoy Dahab pudding :) inshalla we'll begoing soon. (Just have to sell the house)

I'm struggling with the idea of selling the house again! !!!! Wise words please. Part of me is really struggling with the idea of not owning it..... a lot of memories were made there. I know it has to go and it's only bricks and mortar and I can always get another and i don't want the headache anymore and it will give us enough money to leave and start again somewhere. But I'm really sad about it :( am I just being silly? ?

somewherebecomingrain · 28/10/2013 21:37

Tues fine for me - so 3, 10, 17.

rosie I go with it. She has never slept in a cot. We co sleep brilliantly.

In the day I give her the boob from all sorts of awkward angles if I need to get up and do something. I put a warm pillow next to her so she thinks it is me.

Although we sleep well I do feel she feeds too much in the night.

She is eating solids now a lot and really my only tactic is to stuff her full of foods in the day. Today she ate epic amounts - banana toast, cheese loaf, apple, banana, hummus and rice cake, avocado and lasagna. Will report tomorrow.

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scarecrow22 · 28/10/2013 22:14

golly, am I underfunding T?

he has milk at 7, 11ish, 2-2.30, 5 and 7, plus in night; today he ate 2-3 tbsp baby porridge, more than half a veg pouch and (disappointingly) only 1-2 tbsp of my chicken.casserole (pured). Cheese loaf sounds delicious.... oh and he gnawed on a bit of DD's pizza and at other times toast and apple, but didn't actually consume any....

scarecrow22 · 28/10/2013 22:16

Rosie from memory Eagle transferred from co sleeping to separate cot and no/few night feeds. Think though it was quite a bit later than 3 mo. She will hopefully be back soon....

somewherebecomingrain · 29/10/2013 06:49

No scarecrow baby some is just a big eater. She's just one if those babies. Ds ate nothing!

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EagleRay · 29/10/2013 07:23

Yoo hoo!! Coming live from snug! Re food amounts - DD had teeny tiny meals to start so T prob ok with portions. 3 tsp for a meal sounds ok for his age

Re co sleeping, moved DD to cot in own room at 6/7 mo a d she soon after slept through -clearly boob access was reason for a lot of the night feeds! Co sleeping was good but I needed to get some decent sleep

Home today :-( but have a list of goals and plans for coming months

Rosie totally understandable feeling sad about a house - I would be the same

EagleRay · 29/10/2013 07:26

Ps DD did nastiest, stickiest poo this morning - she had to be suspended by ankles for cleanup! This is my punishment for feeding her naughty baby biscuits (altho DP bought them)

scarecrow22 · 29/10/2013 07:37

dh said when he met me that one of the things that attracted him was my hearty appetite Hmm

blueblackdye · 29/10/2013 10:53

Welcome home Eagle ! I smiled at the vision of baby Eaglet in the air upside down being washed with a hose !!!! was it the baby biscuit or the onion, do you think ?!
Agree with Eagle, since A and I are apart for sleep, she wakes up a lot less, she does but will fall back asleep if I am not in the room, smell of BM, comfort, reassurance, who knows ? if I am, then only boob will get her to go back to sleep
We have had 1 horrible night with A screaming almost for 2 hours last week. But DH forbade me coming in. Since, we had almost 11 or 12 hours sleep with 1 waking or none at all.
Rosie, glad you have your house back, selling it is heartbreaking but as you said it will give you the opportunity to start something else for your family, see it as the beginning of a new era with Rosebud, xx
Scarecrow, it looks like T has all the feeds he needs, solid food at his age is mainly to develop his taste buds, mastication and language later on, rather than getting food in really, he is absolutely fine imo, you are a good mum !
Re Xmas get together, Tuesdays are fine by me too. We are off from 14th Dec so any day before would do for me.

The birthday party went well. Kids have been very civilized and played all together without fighting nor crying (10 children from 14 months to 9y) The room was fantastic, huge with lots of natural light flooding in and stone floor. Because we had it only for ourselves, I felt comfortable, I am silly but most of the times we are out in restaurants, I feel like I disturb people's peace when my kids don't behave... There were sofas and empty tables, so they could relax, sit and play board games (I had 3 board games) or draw (50 pirate drawings to colour, lots of pencils) while others were running around.
The pinata was quite difficult to break, I was scared they could hurt themselves with the buster but they stood back while one of them was smashing with all his strength, it was funny to see them so focused on destroying something, it was like "Yeah ! let's do it. For once, we won't be told off" there was something in their eyes ! Excitement but no evil.
While they were on the pinata, we had our lunch, dim sum and crispy duck and hot and sour seafood soup !
The cake was sumptuous, I had to choose between a pirate ship cake and a treasure chest cake. It was a hard one. The kids were all excited.
Champagne to finish off as it was also DH's birthday, 3 bottles for 10 of us... glad nobody had to drive home
4 hours of relaxed chit chat, nice food with friends, this is what we wished for. And above all, the birthday boy was very happy to see his cousins and friends. He has been spoiled to the root, his bedroom is a toy shop. We had to take a cab home with all the presents he received !

Although I had a moment of panic, A went missing and we looked for her for what were the longest 3 minutes of my life. We left her wandering around and she went behind a sofa, out of sight. I started panicking a bit.

Now I have to find DH's birthday present. Oups !!!

PuddingAndHotMilk · 29/10/2013 19:26

I feel like I'm always apologising for being crap at keeping up with the thread - sorry again!! Nearly caught up but apologies for anyone I've missed

Rosie great news on the house being free again and the kitchen! Hopefully the clean up is swift and the credit is cleared up soon too!! It's understandable to be feeling funny about selling up. You have some good memories and it's some roots. I know when I was travelling having something permanent helped steady me (iykwim) but now Rosebud and MrRosie are your permanence so maybe it's less necessary now. Think of it in terms of what it will help you achieve in the future?
I'll be in Dahab in 48 hours... Will blow bubbles for you!! I'm impressed you made it to the Dice Show, how was it? Sorry DH was so useless afterwards, have you sorted anything out with him?

scarecrow you are so right on the longer day! BabyPud has no routine so made no odds really but somehow it seemed really hard on Sunday... Your family moment post run sounds gorgeous. It's those special moments you want to remember forever.

Eagle welcome home. Have loved your pics - looks like you had a great time!! Hope no ill effects for BabyEagle after the poonami - you painted a beautiful picture there!

BBD the party sounds great, apart from the panicked moment. I can't imagine how that would feel.

goat hope you're getting more sleep now and BG has adjusted to GMT

somewhere fx for good sleeps after that feast. BabyPud sleeps in crib next to us and most nights wakes at 1,4,7,9 for feeds after going down at sometime between 10:30 and 1. Occasionally she drops the 4am and goes til 6 but I can never work out what/why. I get up to feed her but she stays sleepy. We plan to move her into her room at 6mo but I'm nervous she'll be harder to settle after night feeds - now I can do a little shush-pat when she's fussing while I'm still in bed.

KK exciting times with scooting babyKK - have you got the stair gates up? So sorry to hear about your Mum; hopefully early intervention will mean it's well managed Flowers

Waves to scarecrow knotty & cycle hope you're all well too.

I can make any Tues or Wed in Dec for a meet up as far as I know. Are we looking at a London meet?
Will post my news separately later x

scarecrow22 · 29/10/2013 20:21

pud don't apologise or feel you have to keep up with everything. Especially not if it puts you.off visiting! Would love to hear your news more than anything xx

scarecrow22 · 29/10/2013 21:55

Re Xmas, if we wanted to meet in Reading, this might work: www.themadhousereading.co.uk/page.asp?id=1&p=WelcometoTheMadHouse

Or London, obviously...

PuddingAndHotMilk · 29/10/2013 23:58

Thanks Scarecrow Smile I lurk but find it hard to update often and by the time I have a spare hand to type the threads moved on. I feel bad if I just come write about my stuff... Anyway...
BabyPud has had a few bad days. I thought we'd turned a corner but growth spurt last week followed by jabs in Fri resulted in massive return of silent reflux hell. She's back on infant gaviscon which has helped the reflux but now she's all bunged up.

Either way she's up every 90 mins overnight and won't settle for more than 45 mins at a time in the day except one monster sleep mid afternoon (2.5 hours on me, less in Moses basket). I'm weathering the storm but fml I'm shattered.

I'm also worried about how being bunged up might affect her hydration as we go to Egypt on Thursday. I don't want to put her off the bottle by using that to give water so I might have to do syringes with water when she's active/awake between feeds. Unless anyone else has bright ideas?

Just nursed her to sleep with no refluxing or hiccups for the first time in 4/5 days Grin

Sending sleepy vibes to all our bubs tonight x

scarecrow22 · 30/10/2013 03:15

pud poor baby and mummy. Sorry as that sounds very tough.

Syringe for water brilliant idea: there are also little sippy cups like http://www.mothercare.com/Tommee-Tippee-First-Drinking-Cup---Blue/846079,default,pd.html this or http://www.mothercare.com/Bickiepegs-Doidy-Cup/431448,default,pd.html the Doidy cup which both T and DD love/d.

Somebody gave me a tip the other day which seems to work, which is you can drink prune juice and that helps baby via bf. I'd also recommend you up your water intake, though dh would say that is because I recommend water for most health problems Smile

Do hope yesterday was a sign another corner has been turned.