Have name changed incase this comes across really bad! I've just been watching obem and the old saying came up about how you get that instant rush of love, how you'll never feel anything like it when they first put you lo in your arms. I hate that i never got that feeling. I hated the entire process! I wanted to get pregnant after a few mc yet complained all throughout pregnancy (found it unbelievably difficult) i hated the labour and birth (not at all what we had wanted, ended up flat on back, strapped to monitor, canula ect) and after a very long labour, i barely even looked at my dd, i was just so relieved the whole horrible experience was over i went straight to sleep, i don't even know if she fed first or if they took her away! All i know is i woke up 4 hours later with a baby next to me. The love did eventually come after maybe a week or so but i really hate that i didn't get that rush of love feeling your supposed to get AIBU to be so bothered by this even though there is nothing i can do about it now and it happend months ago! still irritates me hearing people saying it!