#### Please let's support Spacecadet ##########

[desperatehousewife]

Spacecadet is currently having to deal with more than anyone should ever have to deal with in a lifetime.

She has experienced over the last few months a stillbirth, serious illness, looking after with no help a house full of children and a consequence a husband who has walked out.

Please can we do something positive and practical to help spacey out over the next few months.

Lovely mumsnet have said that they will give out the details of their po box address so that any of us that feel so generously inclined could rustle up a few quid to go into a nanny fund or an au pair fund or so that we can find a company that make lovely homemade food and deliver it to her every week.

Please support me on this - If everyone gave just £1 we'd be able to offer some amazing help to SC.

I'm sorry Spacey if you are angry with me for starting this thread - I know you are proud and you have coped admirably with everything - but please just accept that we want to help.

I will post details of who to make cheque payable to and where to send it, just as soon as I have the details. In the meantime, please look behind your cushions on your sofa and in the bottom of your handbag amongst the fluff to dig out those coins.

Thank you so much
DHW

pmsl!

oh how convenient, dh says hes lost his chequebook and therefore cant pay my bills before he goes.

Can he not go to the nearest cash machine before he goes?

nearest one is 7 miles away.
it doesnt matter, im so tired and fed up i just want him to go

i just heard my dd ask him if he was ok, he said, yeah great, bloody fantastic.

Sorry this is going to be such a hard day for you. Are these bills urgent or can he send a cheque when he gets to Wales?

no they are urgent! theyve been left a bit long already

((( spacey )))

Wish there was something I could do, Ive been following your threads but not posting as I dont know what to say. Still dont... But wanted you to know I was thinking of you xxxxxx

thanks tamba.
dh is paying the electricity bill over the phone as i speak with his debit card, thank god.
the others are oil and the skip which cant be done over the phone but if it comes to it, he will have to send me the money, the skip was booked in his nam,e anyway, ill give them his new address!

Spacecadet, I don't know you but I think you are being unbelievably brave. Your kids are lucky they have a mum like you holding everything together for them...I would be in bits on the floor if my dh treated me like that when I was ill and exhausted. Good luck to you

he has gone.....

(((((((((((hugs]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]

Hope you're okay.

there is lots of snot IYSWIM.

im not as strong as i thought i was.

Awe spacey

So sorry, sc. Sorry I can't come over today and see you, but will definitely be up in the week if that's OK.

Dont hold back, let it all out, AND YES YOU ARE STRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

thanks CQ, i will def appreciate a visit.
before he left, he said, ive got loads going on upstairs at the moment, im sorry.

In other words, theres still alot unsaid.

Depressed, I tell you depressed.

I am glad you are crying, it means you still care, did he shake your hand before he went ??

Mars sends her love, she is still here corrupting my child.

Eat cake or chocolate.

You are strong, yuo will be okay.

he is gone, you can breath again, you can be yourslef and cry and not hide.

I am half expecting him to come back claiming to have forgotton something, I think he wants to say something, but keeps wimping out.