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Inappropriate kissing from DS..?

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monkeytrousers · 26/11/2005 10:00

Would nayone find this innappropriate if they say this. I just stopped b'feeding ds at 12 months (he's now 14 months) and he's still comforted by the latching on and suckling. Since he can't get to my norks, he does it to my erm lips. It all looks a bit french. DP says it looks odd (read Freudian) and the HV said it might start to look a bit inapropraiet to others now he's no longer a baby. I find it really cute and hilarious when he falls over and then comes up to me with his tongue hanging out! Like me and Dp used to be!

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monkeytrousers · 26/11/2005 10:01

inappropriate

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misdee · 26/11/2005 10:04

he is still a baby!

HappyMumof2 · 26/11/2005 11:05

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hercules · 26/11/2005 11:06

Agree with misdee, he is still a baby and it is in way inappropriate. If it were, it would be a sad world we live in.

hunkermunker · 26/11/2005 11:16

DS used to kiss me with a wide open mouth before he got the hang of the actual pucker and kiss "mwah" thing - SO cute. If he's still doing it when he's 18, then worry

Feistybird · 26/11/2005 11:19

how can any behaviour by a 14 month old baby (sorry, but at that age, they're still babies to me) be deemed 'inappropriate'??

bizarre comment from a hv

hercules · 26/11/2005 11:19

Dont ya just love hvs?

hunkermunker · 26/11/2005 11:21

I think HV behaviour's often inappropriate.

hercules · 26/11/2005 11:21

I think their behaviour is often bordering on the insane.

snowfalls · 26/11/2005 11:24

He is just showing you affection, enjoy it, it dont last long with little boyshe will be running in the opposite direction before long when you ask him for a kiss.

longwaytogo · 26/11/2005 11:36

oh bless

geranium · 26/11/2005 11:38

Ds comes and kisses me. I've told him about the pucker and "mwah" thing but not sure if he's got the hang of it since he comes up to me, puts his lips to my cheek and goes "moo"

WigWamBam · 26/11/2005 11:50

I've said it before - some HVs need a slap. He's still a baby, how on earth can a baby behave inappropriately? Putting adult connotations onto a baby's behaviour is inappropriate.

Pinotmum · 26/11/2005 11:51

Make the most it, my ds is now 3 yo and when I ask for a kiss he says he's run out of them

Janh · 26/11/2005 11:54

ROFL at geranium's DS's moo!

fuzzywuzzy · 26/11/2005 12:13

Dd2 kisses me just like that....I regularly get covered in baby spit and sometimes she'll even bite me just to reassure me she loves me very much..... I don't think it's inappropriate at all, might raise eyebrows if he were say errrmmmm in his teens but he's a baby.

monkeytrousers · 26/11/2005 12:20

Yeah, I suppose if he's still doing it at 18 I'll put my foot down.

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Papillon · 06/12/2005 08:58

he wants your boobies... give them back to him. Your saw my pictures.. tandem baby all the way

Does it make your horny when he sucks your lips?

hub2dee · 06/12/2005 09:05

Back to your yurt, woman, LOL.

BudaBabeInAManger · 06/12/2005 09:21

Know just how you feel Pinotmum - my DS (4) is the same. Or he says he's saving all kisses and cuggles for Daddy!!!

handlemecarefully · 06/12/2005 09:22

No it's fine!!!

My 19 month old is still trying to kiss me open mouthed. It's endearing and amusing - not inappropriate.

Epiffany · 06/12/2005 09:23

I remember my ds giving me an eating kiss when he was tiny too
He did stop (he is nearly 12) and now runs a mile if I look like kissing him so he turned out ok, nothing Oedipal etc

monkeytrousers · 18/12/2005 19:52

Paps!! I come back from my studies to find this??

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DoesntChristmasDragOn · 18/12/2005 19:57

I wouldn't find your DSs "kissing" inapprpriate but I can't say the same for Papillon's comments!

crimbocrazydazy · 18/12/2005 20:01

DS is always snogging me, he even calls me his girlfriend and he's 3.5, he doesn't do it open mouthed but even if he did still would not consider it inappropriate. He's my baby boy and always will be.