I have name changed as I am sure you are all about to rip me to pieces.
DS went in his own cot only slept for about 3hours after 6 weeks like this we started co-sleeping. When he was 31/2 found out I was pg so we started moving him into his own bed.
DD slept in a moses basket by our bed but when the slepp troubles started I did not hesitate to start co-sleeping. Well DD now co-sleeps on the inside(the bed is against the wall) But after she was born DS started feeling left out and so has started sneaking in the bed and I felt it was heartless to say no so he went on the outside with dp.
DD is 14 months (still feeds three times a night) and while no one is squashed I am aware that this is not a good idea please don't flame me my family have enough to say on the subject (anti-cosleepers more controlled cryers) I just want advice on what I should do that is best for both my DC I don't really mind them in the bed (it is a big bed) but I know that it is not a good idea WWYD?