yes, pippi, it's worth having a look at the shitty school, as McC said they might not be so shitty, on paper where DS went to last year looked crap, but when I met all the staff they were so good, head just great (veeery nice indeed ) but firm with the kinds when needed, without terrorising them.
we often have cereali for dinner , when I'm just knackered, or when we've had a late big lunch... DS is like your DD1, Rosa, he loooooves the choc ones
Rosa, I'm bf morning/afternoon/bedtime still, quite happy til it lasts as the smell of formula makes me gag so if I can avoid it it's better, not sure though how long I'll carry on. I bfed DS morn/night til he was 11.5 mo (formula in aft), when there really was nothing coming out and DS wanted the bottle instead and because he left me prosciugata I thought this time I would have done 6 months only. but bf has gone better this time and haven't needed formula so far, plus being our last I feel a bit weird about not doing ever again IYKWIM...