went to see dp's brother a few days ago ( the one who isn't really his brother, but was fostered by dp's brothers as a child and never went back,so has lived with mil scince dp, bil and foster brother were 8/9 now in 30's. he stayed with mil till she died last dec, he has learning diffuculties) except when i got there, he has been moved out and there was a new family living there!!!! so dp contacted his brothers social worker asking where he was and she refused to tell us, saying she wasnt allowed to pass on information. all she would say was that he moved at the very end of october.
now i know we havnt seen him in awhile but surly they could have at least rung and told us they were going to move him elsewhere, they kept ringning us all the time before telling us to do stuff for him, which is why we told his brother we couldnt keep going round for a while so that the social services sorted it out with carer and not keep relying on us to go round every day and see to him.
so we have no idea where they have place him, with who etc. AND they have took all of the things from the flat, so dp now has no photos left of his mum and dad, none of her things. every thing has gone, even our tv that we had lent him and our pc which was there, everything. AND mils cat which we had left with brother as he liked her company and looking after her, which he did well and fed her everyday etc.
we had gone round to see him before it was the first anniversary of her death, so he has spent that alone with out us.
so my dad has suggessted we get the police involved and tell the social services that if they dont tell us where they have put brother and all of our things we will call the police and somehow have them done for theft??
i dont know what to do. might start a thread on here asking if they can do this?
why do things never run smoothly!!!