AIBU DH Said the wrong name in bed

[Welshgal78]

Just that basically. When we dtd I say "My (husbands name)" and he says My (My name) but last night we were in bed dtd I said "My ....." and when he replied, it wasn't my name. I didn't catch the actual name but I'm sure it began with a J and my name starts with a S. He said "oh I don't know what happened there!" I asked him what name he'd said and he said he didn't know. I asked him if he was cheating on me and he swore he wasn't. I just don't understand how you can say a name and not remember what you said 5 seconds later. I asked him again later if he was cheating on me and he swore blind he wasn't. I just don't know what to think.

If it looks like a duck…..

Perhaps he said, 'Me Julie?'

Wow I wouldn’t be at all happy about this OP, it suggests he either is cheating, or is thinking about a particular person in that way.

I don’t know what you can do. Some would think it’s reasonable grounds for snooping, I wouldn’t judge you if so but I’m single and I don’t know what I’d do tbh.

Consider his movements of late..
Where has he been?

That's why the word "darling" was invented :-)

So every time you get down to it you say “My Gary” and he says “My Jean” or whatever? 😳🤣

I've been married for over 20 years and DH referred to me as wife #1's name when he was speaking to his uncle on the phone the other week.

Sometimes wires do just get crossed when you're distracted. Obviously I did give him the look of death 💀 🤣.

Many years ago exDH said “I love you, Rock” and I replied “I love you too, Tony”. To this day I swear I have no idea who Tony is/was. Maybe I’d been dreaming of a Tony. It was a complete brain fart with no deeper meaning, though I’d never have believed it possible until it happened to me!

Do you just do the “My {insert name}, My {insert name}” system once or does this continue on a regular basis throughout the deed?

It might not have been a name.

Maybe he said, ‘My joints!’

Were you on top?

My DH has a J name and every other man I have dated has a J name, once I did call him the wrong name in an argument. Tbh he was acting like a dick and we don’t really argue that much so I guess my brain just associated arguing with previous J name. This was 6 years ago and he still brings it up as a joke, but at the time he was raging. Rightly so to be honest.

If it had been during sex I think it would have been a much bigger deal. The odd name slip in everyday life isn’t the end of the world, but during sex? It would send my brain into absolute overdrive and I would be putting on my deer stalker, getting out my pipe, and be launching a Sherlock Holmes level investigation. I’d be going through the phone as well but I am a little crazy.

🤣😂🤣

Oooh my Keith 🤣 really?

DH who was my then quite new BF of a couple of months called me by his ex GF name. Our names did sound very alike think Sharon and Karen. It was a bit odd but didn’t think much of it.

But a couple of weeks later whilst in the midst of a lustful encounter I screamed his Dads name really loudly deliberately twice, had met his Dad a couple of days before. We still laugh about that 28 years hence.

Many moons ago I said the wrong name during sex. I wasn't cheating. Still no idea how it happened.

Glenda and Barry from ‘Last of the Summer Wine’ springs to mind 🤣.

I'm getting chuckle brothers "to me, to you" vibes here.

Sure it wasn't Jesus?

I'd be more upset by the "my" business to be honest. Bleurgh. Some of us just have a thousand things in our brain at once even when we're lost in the moment. I've been mid orgasm and started worrying about what is make for dinner later..so it's not like I wasn't enjoying myself! He could have just had Julie from accounts pop in reminding him he hasn't got back to her with his tax code

I once did this. I sat up in bed in the middle of the night and said “James James! Where are you??! I was indeed to my shame, cheating. “ Luckily my boyfriend at the time was also called James. He said “It’s ok, I’m here! “.

🤣🤣🤣

My ex once called me Alison and tried to pass it off as 'ah, listen'.
Weird because my name isn't Alison and doubly so because the woman he was cheating on me with was called Emma.

Sorry I know I shouldn’t laugh as this cos it’s fucking horrid that he was a cheating scumbag but trying to pass it off as ‘ah listen’ cracked me up 🫣😂

@TheChosenTwo nah don't worry, it is funny! And he and Emma deserved each other, Alison had a lucky escape whoever she is.

Is that why you’re Xs?!

Yup he's having it away with the Mexican guy from across the road.

Definitely LTB 😁