Oh, dear, now you all think i am a shouty totally controlling pain in the arse mum, i am not, rrrrealllly! It is difficult with this parenting business. I don't want to parent like my parents AT ALL, and dp comes from a screwed up family as well. As we had no idea how to parent when ds was born we watched lots of programmes by the British psychologist woman, beautfil woman, not that horrible nanny who has the intellect of a toad, what were they called, not on anymore anyway. Anway I thougth she was really reasonable, lots of common sense type of stuff. She is my guru, but her name escapes.
Talking of names I like Elena, Clotilde (lol, i know, but i like it) and will try to think of others. Anche Natalia. ( come Ginzburg). Dp is saying Messalina (hopefully he is joking )