Apparently my situation is no different to having a husband who is still alive

[Yorkiegirl]

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HD, she knew why we have a bungalow. i felt like slapping her. she has a much larger 3 bedroom house round the corner, but she [gasp] has to go upstairs to use the bathroom and to put the children to bed.

Do you visit her house often? You should shit on her sofa and say "now you know why I need a bungalow".

Not that you have to clean up shit, of course.

i dont shit on my sofa

maybe i should send dh there and get him to ask to use the toilet.