Apparently my situation is no different to having a husband who is still alive

[Yorkiegirl]

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Are you likely to see her this morning YG? I wonder hw she will react?

Some people just don't have an empathetic bone in their body - they have neither the wit nor the imagination to think beyond their own little world.

I'm sorry you had to be on the receiving end of it though, YG.

YUe ssoem people are very self asorbed. When my mum died when I was 22 (I lost my dad at 15) I was left with no real family. Two days later a 'friend' rang me and started going on about how skint she was and that she felt like her whole life had turned upside down and she asked me if i'd ever felt like my life had turned upside down!!

Sorry don't know what happened with my typing then!

Oh YG, I am stunned.
STUNNED.
I hope she has thought through what she said and realises her crass stupidity.
Grrrrr on your behalf.

is she a 'friend'?
Can you avoid seeing her? If not, let's all come up with a brilliant cutting remark yoiu can say to her

I hope to bloody God she sat there last night cringing(sp??) at herself.

FFS what planet are some people on??

omg

I hope she is squirming with shame and embarassment.

You are so dignified Yorkie. It would have taken serious restraint on my part not to have ripped her fucking head off . Very well done for reacting as you did.

did i read the op correctly?
you NEED the place to be able to go to work & support your family. She is a SAHM with a DH already providing support?
And YOU are selfish? What does that make her?
This is just so I wouldn't be able to respond to her. I dope lots of other people in RL heard her!

Un-bloody-believable! What a complete twunt. It's incredible that not only would the woman think such a ridiculous thing, but to actually say it to you!!! Vile, disgusting, self-absorbed bitch

I have decided that you must tell this story to as many people at school as possible

really you must

I am appalled that those thoughts would enter someones head let alone say them

I really admire the dignified way handled the situation
she deserves a slap
x

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Something is very wrong with her YG, I would stay as far away from her as I could. So sorry you had to hear that from her.

I think you did incredibly well not to lump her one yorkie. Califrau summed it up in a very early post - fckwit!!! Hope your dd is enjoying nursery.

You must be delighted you have such a wonderful life, YG. But good for you for having the strength to laugh.

Why did she assume your dd getting a place was the only reason her dd didn't get a place- or is the nursery only caring for one child at a time

Can you tell her about a fabulous nursery you have head of that is elsewhere and cross your fingers there's a place - so you can wave a firm goodbye to her as she leaves your radar.

she sounds like a moron

can you stay away from her at all YG?

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Glad to hear it YG.

I wonder if she watched the WAY programme last night YG.

YG, What an idiot she is. Glad you got an apology.

My ex once told me I was lucky that my dad died, when I was young. She's mental, though.

i got told i was lucky to have a bungalow

glad she has said sorry YG.

misdee, did you explain WHY you have a bungalow? In vary disparaging tones, ending with "you stupid woman / man"?