I wish, I wish, I wish................

[jmg1]

That my children had a Mummy.

jmg

Has something happened today? Are you okay?

awhhh... they might have another mummy one day, she might a mumsnetter

what on earth is the matter?can we (MN'rs)help?

I wish they did, too, JMG. LIfe's not fair, is it?

Jmg.

JMG I wish they did too. Like I said before, try and ride the storm, it will pass, promise.

you poor love. what is wrong (apart form the obvious i mean) you sound really down in the dumps.

they have a mummy, she is in a very special place, taking care of them and you in her own way.
I can see you being part of a happy family again one day, you have so much to offer, in the meantime, try to find some acceptance and peace, open your arms and your heart, and then one day you never know.....

Wanted to cry when i read this. I have read some of your posts on threads before jmg - You sound like a GREAT Dad. Sometimes one really brilliant parent can be better than two IYKWIM

ah piffle...you made ME cry!! what lovely words

sorry you're having a bad day jmg, I wish they had a mummy too.

You'll ever make up for them not having a mummy JMG and of course you wish they had one (they do by the way just not with them) but you are dong the bestest job ever - and to be honest there are lots of kids out ther with mummies who don't have the love and joy that your's have in their lives - no consolation I know but you are doing a great job.

Big Hugs Twinkie. XXX

Stupid question JMG but are you ok?

jmg, are you still there?

Juse texted you jmg.

me too Lou but his phone is switched off

JMG - hope you're okay right now. I wish your kids had a mummy with them to cuddle too but I also wish you had a partner because it's not just the kids that need cuddles is it? I really think you should consider seeing a bereavement counsellor to help you deal with your and your childrens' loss. Wish I could give you a real hug!

He's probably taking some time out to think.

I guess so, it's really horrible when the bad days hit you. It is all consuming

I agree with everyone else jmg - your kids have a wonderful daddy and all the love in the world.

And he isn't feeling v well so that won't help.

lets just hope he comes back on here or gets in touch with someone to let us know he's ok.

if you're reading this JMG, just remember I have a date with some absinthe, if you're feeling better that is

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