Hey Amanda this is great!! Have just seen this thread and jsut about caught up.
Right, fwiw I'm 38 and have just been on holiday with lasses and got up to much worse than you. In fact yours isn't even bad as you knew him really well and he obviously had the hots for you already.
I'm not sure why you feel old tbh? I feel younger now than I did 10 years ago. Feel really free and confident.
Anyway, dh is 12 years older than me so I'm similar to you and your future dh
Oh and my encounter on hols has turned into the real deal so it was well worth it. Marriage has been over a while apart from odd bit of effort dh made but he's back to normal. Not bothered though, not a jot!
Can't wait to hear how it went. No ignoring us on Saturday especially if he has a laptop