Right, I'm not going to get into anything here, but just wanted to say that it was me who said I didn't see what the big deal was about meeting a new guy. If you've read my posts properly, you'll see that it wasn't written in a nasty way, was just expressing an opinion. I didn't know about Amanda's history, but had a hunch that it was something that deserved a happy ending, and after a few MNetters explained it to me you'll also notice that my following posts were nicely written and wished her well too. Amanda seems to have accepted my opinion, as just that, an opinion, so there's not really any reason for anyone else to get arsey about it. For the record, I don't fall into the category of people who have a cob on because their threads don't get as much attention. I'm not that immature.
My Sister is a single Mum, and she's got a boyfriend of 9 months, who's a heavy drinker and isn't making much of an effort with my Nephew. Mind you, my Sister herself also drinks, and is adding to the problems. So, now I know more about Amanda, I do wish her, her DD and the new man all the best.