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So, what exactly is Kinky?????

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TambaTheDragonSlayer · 26/01/2006 19:01

During a conversation with DH today (and I have no idea how this subject came up!) He mentioned that he didnt think I was kinky enough (We were joking about ways to improve our marraige i think!) I thought I was!

Maybe we have crossed wires over what the word means...

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gapingaxewound · 26/01/2006 19:02

hmmm i think men and women have pretty different ideas on kinky a lot of the time!
maybe he wants you to dress up as a dominatrix and spank him

alexsmum · 26/01/2006 19:03

i don't know...maybe it's dirty, sexy sex if you know what i mean? not very clear am i?

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TambaTheDragonSlayer · 26/01/2006 19:04

Been there done that....

Thats why i thought I was kinky!

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TambaTheDragonSlayer · 26/01/2006 19:04

Not sure what your on about alexmom

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alexsmum · 26/01/2006 19:07

i don't know- it's one of those awkward things wher we would have to know what kind of things were normal sex to know if you were kinky enough.for example- if defecating on each other while dressed up a cowboys is normal for you then i think you are kinky enough. however if kinky means leaving the lights on , then maybe things could improve!!!!!

WigWamBam · 26/01/2006 19:07

Erm, silly question but have you asked him what he means by kinky? And what he would like you to do that you don't do now?

colditz · 26/01/2006 19:07

maybe he wants you to poo on his head.

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TambaTheDragonSlayer · 26/01/2006 19:10

LOL - there is no way he would want to play with poo! (and neither would I!!)

WWB - I dont think its an issue between us, Hes happy with our sex life. I asked him what 'kinky' was and he said he didnt know but didnt think I was it

(Poor bloke, I was his first girlfriend so he doesnt know any better )

We do all the normal stuff. I am trying to think of a way to be kinky and failing! Would be worth it just to see the look on his face

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alexsmum · 26/01/2006 19:11

a trip to ann summers maybe?

expatinscotland · 26/01/2006 19:12

for some it involves small farm animals.

Nbg · 26/01/2006 19:13

Do you "dress up" at all?

Without being too nosey!

WigWamBam · 26/01/2006 19:13

No, I didn't mean it was an issue, just that if he thinks you could be more kinky then he presumably had something in mind that he'd like to try.

starlover · 26/01/2006 19:13

definitely need nipple tassles

expatinscotland · 26/01/2006 19:14

that dress up stuff is bollocks. f£$k that! that's what an imagination for.

Nbg · 26/01/2006 19:14

PMSL

"So what exactly is kinky"

below

"Gender appropriate toys"

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TambaTheDragonSlayer · 26/01/2006 19:15

Yup, we have done the whole drssing up thing, photos, different rooms of the house, outside etc... got lots of stuff from ann summers, done mags and dvds etc... I am totally out of ideas!

I cant imagen whats going through his mind then! Reminds me of the episode of friends where monica thought chandler was watching shark porn

I did ask him to expand but he went misteriously quiet

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ImKinky · 26/01/2006 19:16

how about taking pictures with your digital camera or maybe a spot of DIY with DH allowed to watch but not touch

(runs back to bedroom)

starlover · 26/01/2006 19:16

jeez if that isn't kinky i have no idea what is?

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TambaTheDragonSlayer · 26/01/2006 19:17

Hello namechanger bless your little blushes

We did that at christmas and I gave them to him in an album.

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ImKinky · 26/01/2006 19:17

hmmm how about using a banana while DH watches

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TambaTheDragonSlayer · 26/01/2006 19:17

A banana??? He doesnt like fruit

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noddyholder · 26/01/2006 19:18

It is an individual thing.One man's kinky is anothers dull and vice versa.Personally anything not involving livestock is fine

WigWamBam · 26/01/2006 19:18

OK, so start coming up with suggestions if he's not going to!

"Do you want to blndfold me?"
"Do you want to use handcuffs?"
"Do you want me to hang from the chandalier?"
"What would you like to do with that Mars Bar?"

Blah blah blah.

ImKinky · 26/01/2006 19:19

he doesnt have to eat it - infact may have fallen apart by end

9 1/2 weeks - food etc

finger up his arse while you're shagging?
theres some gland up there you can rub

ImKinky · 26/01/2006 19:19

agree with WWW

especially as youve done all our suggestions !!