urgent advice needed, does this mean im pregnant?

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I've just done a test as my period was late, and there is one very clear line and one not so clear. If there are 2 lines it means you are pregnant. Do you think its positive even tho the 2nd line is a lot lighter?

Yes, if there is a 2nd line it is positive, it doesn't matter if the line is a bit faint.

The test can't show a positive by mistake but it could show a negative by mistake.
So if it shows pos you are.
If it shows neg, you might be or you might not be

Yes, the lines don't have to be the same. Are you ok?

yes, you are pregnant, or have been recently. Test again in a few days to be certain. The faint line means that the HCG levels are low. They could be rising (because you are pregnant) or falling (because you were recently). The only way of telling is doing another test in a few days (and a few weeks if the 2nd test is positive but still rather faint). How late is your period?

Ok, thanks for the quick replys.

Oh crap, this is terrible :(

Oh moving I'm sorry. Not the result you wanted then.

It's only a week late

Thanks for the hug, no not the result I wanted, and I have so much to do at the moment I can't worry about this too.

Is there anyone you can talk to in real life about it?

Yes, I've got a really good friend that I've already told, she was going to come to see me right away but I have to go to my mums as we are having Xmas there, so won't even be able to speak on the phone about it as I'm not keeping it so can't tell my mum :(

I am glad you have a friend to confide in. You need to make an appointment to see someone for advice as soon as soon as you can after Christmas.

OP sorry it's not the result you want. I can't leave the last post up here without responding - see article here to see that previous poster is misguided.

Please don't click on previous link. It is not what you are looking for.

Try www.bpas.org/bpaswoman or www.mariestopes.org.uk/

chocablock - really unhelpful post. OP says she is not keeping this PG.

Jeez chocablock what a load of old twaddle. It's not mandatory to feel guilty. There is no right or wrong way to feel about abortion.

OP, you do what's right for you. If you need someone impartial to talk your decision through with, you can contact an organisation like The Samaritans. They will listen. However you feel that's ok.

Firstly, no rushed decisions. Pregnancy is a BIG thing and can bring about an enormous amount of feelings and emotions. I think you need to do what is right for YOU. If you are worried about the situation, it might be helpful to take yourself away from the current situation and decide how you feel JUST about the PREGNANCY AND THAT ONLY. Do talk to your friend and go all the feelings first before making and carrying out a decision. Dont feel guilty just because someone tells you that you should, and that was really unhelpful of CHOCABLOCK to post. Good luck whatever your final decision is. HUGS. X

It sounds like it is an early positive result.

Ignore any pro-life, pro-choice debate on here and see your GP when they reopen after Xmas to discuss all your options.

I see you are concerned about the OP feeling guilty for the rest of her life choc
But only about termination.
Not about relinquishing a newborn baby? You dont think she would feel guilty about that?
Just a warm, fuzzy glow presumably?

moving I really hope you get the help and support you need soon.

OP, there was a recent thread on here where lots of people came on to say they had had an abortion which they had never regretted. I think most people regret being in the situation of havng to make that decision but it is not the case that it ruins your life.
OP, why is you being pg such a bad thing? Can you tell us a bit more about yoyr circumstances?

A lot of people have confided in me about this sort of thing over the years. Some had the baby, some didn't, some lost the baby, with others it was a false alarm.

The important thing is to spend time thinking through what your true feelings are about the matter so you do what is really right for you. The answer is always there in your heart if you look.