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urgent advice needed, does this mean im pregnant?

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movingonwardsorsidewards · 24/12/2011 17:54

I've just done a test as my period was late, and there is one very clear line and one not so clear. If there are 2 lines it means you are pregnant. Do you think its positive even tho the 2nd line is a lot lighter?

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Luminescence · 25/12/2011 23:24

Op, your body, your choice. Good luck with whatever you decide.

Sparklingbaubles · 26/12/2011 09:54

OP are you ok?

TopazMortmain · 26/12/2011 10:06

I hate it when threads from people in need get hijacked by those with a personal agenda...

OP - deep breath OK? Start a new thread if I were you.

Sparklingbaubles · 26/12/2011 10:07

I agree Topaz I fear she has been frightened away.....

movingonwardsorsidewards · 27/12/2011 12:24

Sorry I havnt been back on, I've been busy with Xmas.

I know people will have opinions on this. But I know that now is not a good time for me 2 have another dc. As soon as I was pregnant with my dc I was over the moon and wanted her. With this pregnancy I know I can't do it alone as I am already a single mum and don't want 2 be again :(

I'm not doing this as I have not thought about it, I'm doing it as I no its for the best.

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Sparklingbaubles · 27/12/2011 12:39

Hello moving. Glad you are ok and have come back.

Are you able to go and see someone tomorrow? It must have been a difficult Christmas.

movingonwardsorsidewards · 27/12/2011 12:52

I've got an app for 4th as I'm going on holiday with my family and will be away for a week.

It's not going to be the best holiday as i have started to feel quesay and my belly feels weird :( this is just terrible...

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Sparklingbaubles · 27/12/2011 12:57

It's great that you have an appointment, you have mad a big step. Are you going abroad?

chocablock · 29/12/2011 18:00

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forkful · 29/12/2011 18:43

OP and others the link chocablock has posted to is a Pro-Life Song and Video.

Is there a safe space on MN where posters can discuss abortion options without putting up with this shit? Would antenatal testing etc be a safe space? Perhaps we need an abortion section with some rules.

Sparklingbrook · 29/12/2011 18:45

Thanks for looking *forkful. I didn't want to. I'm not impressed.

StickAForkInMeImDone · 29/12/2011 18:50

movingon You poor love. I had a termination in almost identical circumstances to you. I have never regretted it. I made the right choice for me at the time.
Are you sure you can't tell your mum? Obviously I have no idea about your family dynamics but I remember my parent being incredibly supportive which surprised me.
All the best to you.

StickAForkInMeImDone · 29/12/2011 18:52

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Luminescence · 29/12/2011 19:43

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Luminescence · 29/12/2011 20:01

Ohhhh, I got deleted . I'm sure ity can imagine what I posted.

It's the OPs choice. Leave her to make it in peace, she's having a hard enough time as it is.

Sleepyspaniel · 29/12/2011 20:09

Moving you can only do what feels right for you, as things stand now. Whichever way it goes, even if you have regrets either way, you will know that you made the decision you felt best at the time, taking everything into consideration, and that will be very valuable to hold on to. All the best.

BoffinMum · 30/12/2011 07:58

I think chocoblock's post is entirely misjudged and inappropriate given the topic. This is really not the place for such a debate, and attempting to promote such a point of view here is arrogant in the extreme, not to mention inconsiderate.

Northernlurker · 30/12/2011 08:36

Op - hope you are doing ok.

MrsMicawber · 30/12/2011 08:45

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StickAForkInMeImDone · 30/12/2011 08:48

I can't believe I was deleted! I said the same as Boffin, that there is a time and place for discussion but this is clearly not it. oops I may have added a fuck off in there too
OP hope you are ok and coping on your week away. All the best to you

MrsMicawber · 30/12/2011 08:55

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StickAForkInMeImDone · 30/12/2011 09:01

MrsM I thought so too. I literally said "there is a time and place, this is not it, now fuck off"
Anyway, the important thing is that the OP knows that she has support here whenever she is ready, whatever she decides to do.

MrsMicawber · 30/12/2011 09:21

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TheSecondComing · 30/12/2011 10:13

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