Yet another ..................would you be offended.....

[Pfer]

DS1 was the grand old age of 4 yesterday and for the third year my bro and SIL have forgotten.

I wouldn't be so bothered if I'd ever fogotten their daughters b.day for the last 9 years but I haven't, also SIL moaned to me once that her Sister was late with niece's b.day present, so I know if I ever forgot she'd be moaning about me.

So I'm expecting a crappy card with a tenner in it on Sunday night after my mum's been to see them and told them about the fab Darth Vader cake I made, then they'll remember. Happens every year.

Just quite sad that my own brother and SIL who've been together for 17 years forget my kids birthday and I never forget theirs. Just feels a little like they don't care. It's not like SIL has a busy life and doesn't have time to even get a card (hell I'm not bothered about a present, just for them to have remembered) she works part time..... FOR ME!

Sorry, am just a little upset.

Rhubarb - i wouldn't want my kids to get any gits at all would you?

My children can be gits, but I'm not too sure about them receiving gits. Have you ever sent your brother's children gits pfer?

Not recently, there was the one time that my xH was sent to pick her up from school and he's a major git. Does that count?

Well, he's a git and she received him so yes, I guess that counts!

In that case I must apologise to them and pledge myself eternally in their service or face crows pecking out my innards for all time.

We give gits all the time up here. I though everyone did

Doh!

What flavour?