I was top but didn't want to be, I had the option in 3rd yr of secondary to go into a different class and do 2 languages (ie the top class)and I turned it down.
I ended up leaving that school (to go into 6th form)ok, but higher- middling, rather than top.
It was My choice though - and my parents allowed me to make it.
(wow - I have found something good to say about them!)