Hi everyone - giveitago, I can relate to your post-birthday knackered-ness, I was the same after DD's 1st birthday recently, it was a tour de force and we really only celebrated with close family and a handful of other friends with babies. At this age it was more for us than for her (us having survived the first year!), but my MIL kept talking about the importance of creating a memory and photos for her to look back on when she's older, so we ended up with a house full of party decorations, balloons, non-stop photo sessions and a huge cake, and a rather subdued DD bewildered by all the commotion... Am looking forward to giving parties when she's older, with games etc. but slightly alarmed at the cost! 
Banana - it's not likely we'll be moving in the near future (apart from a full month there in August), at the moment it looks more likely we'd split up than me going to live there, but it's a decision that doesn't have to be confronted for a year or so I hope. He's threatening to move there and take DD with him (via courts) if I don't agree to going
, I'm trying to keep everything together here until she's a bit older.
On a lighter note - I love Baby GAP stuff! Shame it costs so much here compared to the UK, not to mention the States... eagerly awaiting summer sales/cash injection 