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How would you react?

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scruffymum · 30/09/2005 21:49

if dh admitted shagging his step sister, this was the night before his dad's funeral and I was upstairs asleep after loads of booze, they were pissed too. I am shocked but not too upset

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scruffymum · 30/09/2005 21:50

Can I just add this is one year later he has told me.

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hunkermunker · 30/09/2005 21:51

I would search for your chatname and wonder why this was your first post. But then I'm suspicious by nature.

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scruffymum · 30/09/2005 21:52

not my first post so dont be suspicious just coz I know sil posts too

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Mytwopenceworth · 30/09/2005 21:53

If you are not upset, why not? If you don't care then you need to look at the state of your marriage.

hunkermunker · 30/09/2005 21:54

Fair enough!

If you're not that bothered by it, doesn't that worry you?

Mytwopenceworth · 30/09/2005 21:56

erm, ahem, alright there hunker?!!

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scruffymum · 30/09/2005 21:56

harsh words tpw, we don't make love alot but thats coz I herpes from previous bf just hope sil has it now

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hunkermunker · 30/09/2005 21:58

Eh, M2PW?

Norash · 30/09/2005 22:00

WINDUP!

RachD · 30/09/2005 22:00

Why did he tell you ?
Why did he tell you , now ?
Why are you not more upset ?

Mytwopenceworth · 30/09/2005 22:01

was joking with you hunker - cos you repeated what I had said!!

scruffy - didn't mean it to come out harsh - just meant WHY aren't you too upset - thought there might be other stuff in the relationship that was not going right, that you werent too upset because you werent happy in the relationship anyway.

hunkermunker · 30/09/2005 22:02

LOL M2PW! Just worried I'd missed something - am being thick tonight

SM, do you normally get on with your SIL?

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scruffymum · 30/09/2005 22:02

OK this is genuine. DH admitted tonight he had shagged his step sister nunder the influence of alcohol and I kind of laughed. It is hard to belive but true

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Mytwopenceworth · 30/09/2005 22:03

Do you think that maybe you are in shock and that it hasnt sunk in yet?

Mytwopenceworth · 30/09/2005 22:04

hunker - having a blonde moment m'dear?!

vickitiredmum · 30/09/2005 22:04

How did he react to your non-reaction?

hunkermunker · 30/09/2005 22:04

Nope, just trying to do puzzles online with a tired pg brain!

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scruffymum · 30/09/2005 22:04

no she is step sil as her mum married dh dad who had loads of money and dh and mil and siblings were left relly poor. the only reason this has come to light was because dh grandmother died a few weeks ago and we were at the funeral

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Norash · 30/09/2005 22:05

Scruffymum, have you ever cheated on him?

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scruffymum · 30/09/2005 22:05

crossed lines here. I thought Dh was going to tell me he ahd ahd affair. So this seemed pretty mild

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auntymandy · 30/09/2005 22:06

I would be livid..hurt ..upset. If my Dh slept with anyone he would be OUT!

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scruffymum · 30/09/2005 22:06

No Never norash I am apure married virgin

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Mytwopenceworth · 30/09/2005 22:06

How does your H feel about what he did - and WHY did he decide to tell you?

auntymandy · 30/09/2005 22:08

are you glad he told you?
Why are you so non plussed?

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scruffymum · 30/09/2005 22:09

OK he decided to tell me for a good reason. I have masterminded my redundancy so can be home with the kids which he kind of disagrees with but felt he should tell me a bad thing too too lessen my blow.

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