Aha, yes re others. See, this is the difficulty..brain doesn't work in a straightforward way re names and who's who.
May have explained this before but I'll have another go anyway in case it stops being wondering what the heck's going on with me.
Generalising wildly here: Imagine you've got photos of all the friends and relatives and colleagues you know. Let's say it's 100 people. You could lay out photos of them on a table and recall pretty much instantly who each one is, what you know about them, and what they think of you and the others they connect to. Their hobbies, their interests. If one person gets cross or feels you've disappointed them, you can imagine that all the rest are still ok, so it's only (say) a hundredth of all the people, and the rest are okish.
My brain (autism and faceblindness combination) would have 100 blank photos. No faces on them. It can manage their hairstyles or glasses or general build or way of walking or their clothing taste, and guess who they might be, but it can't 'see' them. Neither does it know anything about them at all as a group. It can look at just one photo, with all the rest in a pile behind it. Only one at a time, never a group. Then it has to think and think about who it is, what it knows about them etc.
Suppose the name at the bottom of that photo keeps changing. Or has more than one name in different places. What results is total bafflement.
Suppose that one person gets angry. Because my brain can only see one person at a time and can't recall stuff fast, it feels the same as 100% of my friends and colleagues being angry all at once. There's no room for it to think "hey, the others aren't angry at all!".
Takes a lot of work to overcome the limitations. But it's always worth it for me because that's how I find new friends and share life with people.