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Baby sitting outside of work hours. Manager is not allowing it.

85 replies

Letsgettalking567 · 03/07/2025 16:06

Hi guys can someone else me out here? I work in a private nursery. And I’ve started looking after a little girl after work hours from my old nursery. She doesn’t attend nursery anymore I pick her up from school. Her mum just enjoys me looking after her little girl and trusts me. And my manager now said she doesn’t feel comfortable with me doing it because I’m not a registered nanny. I said okay but I’m not looking after any children from your setting. It’s children that I have looked after many years ago from my previous settings. She said it’s not safe and it could fall back on her business and her company. How is this relevant ? Is there any truth in it ?

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Marylou62 · 04/07/2025 08:17

Marylou62 · 04/07/2025 08:10

Because if the nanny charges £13 an hour the government will pay (approx) £11 of that..
The family then only have to find (approx) £2 per hour.

And when I said struggling I should clarify.
The families were struggling to find childcare because of circumstances..
One single mum had twins but one was in hospital. She had no other help available.
It can be done.

Marylou62 · 04/07/2025 08:23

soupyspoon · 04/07/2025 08:15

Fair enough, but is that the normal going rate for nannies? I pay more than that per hour for my cleaner.

Can nannies care for adults, I might get myself one at that price.

Nanny rates vary across the country.. some nannies are on £25+ an hour.. average in my county is £14..
Nannies can charge what they like and set their own standards/working conditions.
Some nannies will never do anything that isn't wholly child related.
Some nannies (like me) are happy to muck in and do (most!) things that will help the house run smoothly.
I became a nanny/housekeeper for the last 15+ years of my career..
And yes.. I've looked after adults with learning disabilities. But that was through an agency.

Marylou62 · 04/07/2025 08:50

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 03/07/2025 17:41

You're being really weird. Nannies don't register with OFSTED, get over it.

Nannies can and do register with Ofsted.

Plumnora · 04/07/2025 09:31

Are you the manager of the nursery?! You're getting extremely invested in this thread!!
OP is looking after a child she knows in her own time. She doesn't have to be registered with Ofsted and this is a private, informal arrangement outside of work.
OP is doing g nothing g wrong or illegal and the nursery manger doesn't have the right to tell her what she can do outside of work hours.

BurntBroccoli · 04/07/2025 09:36

None of their business what you do in your own private time as long as it doesn’t interfere with your job.
Nursery manager should pay you better if they don’t want you doing extra work in your own time. Bet they won’t!

Plumnora · 04/07/2025 10:16

Sugardown · 03/07/2025 16:10

This isn’t babysitting op

this is a regular set agreed arrangement just like a nanny

Your manager is correct to be concerned

Edited

So I omitted this quote in my comment which was aimed at Sugardown. Can't delete do posting again with quote!!
Are you the manager of the nursery?! You're getting extremely invested in this thread!!
OP is looking after a child she knows in her own time. She doesn't have to be registered with Ofsted and this is a private, informal arrangement outside of work.
OP is doing nothing wrong or illegal and the nursery manger doesn't have the right to tell her what she can do outside of work hours.

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 04/07/2025 17:13

Marylou62 · 04/07/2025 08:50

Nannies can and do register with Ofsted.

Oh god there's another one

Marylou62 · 04/07/2025 20:20

Arttheclown.. what do you mean?

Marylou62 · 04/07/2025 20:43

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 04/07/2025 17:13

Oh god there's another one

What do you mean?

PluckyChancer · 05/07/2025 20:58

Sugardown · 03/07/2025 16:11

Difference is - you do it adhoc

This is set days and hours and an ongoing arrangement. The op is nannying but illegally

Have you already established that the OP lives in England? 🤔

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