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Support thread for women who suspect or know they have ASD traits or are on the spectrum

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OxfordBags · 03/02/2014 20:49

Hello, all! As the title says, I hope this can be a support thread for those of us who suspect or know we have some (or many) Aspergic traits; where we can share experiences, stories, problems, worries, knowledge and info, and hopefully benefit and help each other too.

I found a great link a while ago that is very comprehensive in its description of how Asperger's presents in women and how women experience it. Some of it is strikingly different from the male model and how most people perceive Asperger's. Here: ASD in women

I truly believe two things: 1) that ASD in females is woefully misunderstood and under-diagnosed and 2) that our current understanding and the definition of the AS Spectrum is, in itself, rather ASD in its rigidity, and that there is an actual spectrum of traits much broader and more nuanced than the current model, and that there are a hell of a lot of people struggling with some very typical ASD traits, who nevertheless do not have all the traits required to fulfil a formal diagnosis of having Asperger's or High-Functioning Autism.

So, with that rather typically ASD-style long-winded and unnecessarily detailed intro out of the way, let's chat!

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Mollyweasley · 06/04/2014 10:45

happy for you Smile

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BeyondIsBloodOfTheDragon · 06/04/2014 18:52

Just marking my place and I'll be back :)

Yet another person who was researching re my children and had a lightbulb moment. Use enough nhs money on my physical health, so dont plan on confirming any time soon. I'm just happy "knowing" for myself for now

Mollyweasley · 06/04/2014 21:20

welcome beyond Smile
welcome Holey Wink

Meglet · 10/04/2014 09:00

No appointment news here yet, hopefully I'll hear by the end of the month. I'll need to book time a couple of days off work for it I think.

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Mollyweasley · 11/04/2014 13:00

Are you thinking a lot?

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StarlightMcKenzie · 11/04/2014 19:39

Blimey! I clicked on this thread totally by accident and found that all my favourite MN posters were here, all in one place!!!!!

Grin
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StarlightMcKenzie · 11/04/2014 19:53

I was looking for today's Goose and Carrot!!!

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Mollyweasley · 11/04/2014 20:54

Holy I can not stop thinking and over-analysing- Sometimes I wish I could put it on hold for just a bit. After my diagnosis I went through a lot of anger and 9 months later (thanks to a lot of thinking!) I realised that anger would not take me forward: at the end of the day the idea is to be happy and anger was not contributing. Have you read "Asperger Syndrome and mindfulness by Chris Mitchell.It is quiet useful and helps to try and have positive thinking (although brace yourself it does trigger a lot of thinking!!!). Perhaps thinking is the way for us to deal with everything.I have to say I envy writers who are able to put all their thinking down on paper and share it with the world….

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devilinside · 12/04/2014 10:56

I find communicating on online forums really difficult, so I now mostly just read. Most of what I say (including on here) seems to piss someone off, I don't know why, I try to be fair and honest, but it seems most (NT) people want dishonesty and false empathy

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StarlightMcKenzie · 12/04/2014 11:02

Does that mean I' not 'normal'?

Hope so.....

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devilinside · 12/04/2014 11:06

I find it way too scary, if someone does take offence, I then fixate on it and it ruins my entire day, I can't take criticism.

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