Ok my weirdest thing...
I had a great-uncle to whom I was very close.
The tears are running down my face even typing this I miss him so much and he died in 1987
He was the only person I could rely on to love me 110% and unconditionally.
He was very old and very sick and in hospital. I was 18, and off school for holidays. My parents were going to the hospital in the evenings and staying the night with my great-aunt, I was doing days, taking my two brothers down to Aunt and Unk's house, leaving them there, going to hospital.
On the Tuesday he had been poorly. The Tuesday night he was worse and the hospital called my parents and Great Aunt back to the hospital where they stayed all night.
I went to bed at my normal time and slept like a log. He rallied.
The next day I was down to see him in the hospital on my own. He kept saying "I'll not see you again. I have to go, its my time" I was hysterical "Don't leave me, you can't go etc etc"
He said "I'll say goodbye before I go but I have to go, its my time, and if I don't go there won't be any room for your children"
Anyway, (crying even harder now how pathetic) that night nurses etc thought he was maybe going to pull through. I was wrecked and went to bed really early.
Woke up at 10.02 by my clock, and the only thing I can say is he was in the room, I couldn't see him, he was just there.
He said (in my head) I promised I would say goodbye before I left Knockraven my darling but I have to go now. I will always watch out for you.
I sat up, walked to my brothers bedroom, knocked on the door, said unk has just died,walked downstairs, lifted the phone (it didn't ring) and said "its ok dad I already know unk died about 2 minutes ago"