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Places you have visited with a strange vibe

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RevolvingPivot · 02/06/2021 21:59

Hi. I'm off to Saltburn (near Whitby) tomorrow and I feel sick. I visited last March. The weekend before the lockdown.

The place was so eerie. I was actually freaked out on the pier and had to run off it. I actually managed to sleep at night but I honestly didn't think I would.

The cottage was surrounded by cliffs and there was a Victorian lift and a small morgue by the beach. I'm not sure whether these have anything to do with it.

Has anyone else had this feeling from a place they have visited?

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VenusClapTrap · 06/06/2021 09:41

On a walk on the moors in Derbyshire with a boyfriend when I was about 17, we came across a little ruined cottage in the middle of nowhere. I love exploring places like that, so went in. I immediately felt a wave of creepiness and fear, and bolted back out. Boyfriend stayed in a little longer and walked into another room, then he came scuttling out too. We ran back along the path to get away from there as fast as we could feeling completely panicked - there was a really weird atmosphere that I’ve never experienced since.

Looked it up on the OS map afterwards and the place was called Hordron, or High Hordron. Funny I’ve never forgotten that after all these years.

ChoChoCrazyCat · 06/06/2021 09:57

Blackpool for me. I visited a few years ago, for a hobby-related event. It was Easter weekend and great weather so I assumed it would be really busy and was looking forward to cheesy seaside fun.

I guess the summer season hadn't started yet though, so most of the guest houses seemed to be closed. The streets were eerily deserted too, not even any shops open...other than Pleasure Beach the whole place just seemed dead. Occasionally I'd see another person and it was always someone that looked like they'd just got out of prison. I've lived in rough places so can hold my own but Blackpool really creeped me out, there was just a really strange vibe about it, kind of sinister, even though the sun was shining and people were having fun on the fairground rides.
To get to my hotel from the event venue I had to go through a deserted street with rows and rows of closed B&Bs, I ran all the way. Couldn't get out of the place fast enough.

BreakingtheIce · 06/06/2021 10:19

@dementor72

Was working in an 18th Century Manor House in a secluded Snowdonian valley , had to go up to a room on the top floor to do some repairs... at the time one of the house dogs would follow me around everywhere so I was astonished when he growled at me when I tried to close the door on him and me in the room . He went ape so I let him out and did what I had to do. The most bleak , horrible , scary atmosphere was there so I finished fast and ran downstairs . It really was scary , I felt really oppressed and threatened. A few days later I was told that a maid at that house had committed suicide by throwing herself from one of the windows in the room into the river below. I left that week. Was later told that dogs won’t go where spirits linger 🙀🙀🙀
There seems to be a bit of a theme going about maids committing suicide. Poor women. You wonder what awful things were going on in their lives.
ballroompink · 06/06/2021 11:18

Agree with those who felt very sad in the final rooms you visit in the Anne Frank House.

Also agree re: run-down seaside towns. They're so creepy and miserable. I would never visit Skegness again.

For some reason I also felt very creeped out in Fordingbridge? East Dorset as well, I find a lot of the towns very anxiety-inducing and oppressive.

Fatredwitch · 06/06/2021 11:39

Elphame We all have individual reactions, I think, to different places. I wanted to go to Glastonbury when I was very young and was happy when I got there. The only thing I don't like is that the shops were a bit tacky when I was last there. I have not spent enough time there to comment on the mental state of any of the people there. Where I live has a serious homeless problem, mainly fuelled by heroin and mamba, so the centre of Glastonbury certainly feels more cheerful to me than our city centre.

Whattheduck I know what you mean about Swithland quarry. It is creepy. I think that there may have been at least one suicide there.

Littlecaf · 06/06/2021 11:50

As some who does old buildings and places for a living, there are very few places I’ve been spooked at, it always takes me by surprise.

Up thread people have mentioned Heptonstall, yep felt weird there, but also wanted to move there too.

There was an old mews house in Brighton I once couldn’t get out of quick enough. And a country house in the middle of Sussex, but I think that was because of the owner. I wanted to scream at his wife, “please leave him, he’s weird”.

Cromer was odd.

KisstheTeapot14 · 06/06/2021 12:07

Poor maids of the past. So vulnerable to exploitation of all kinds at unscrupulous hands. The needed a Me Too movement!

Having a child out of wedlock was desperate, no social security only the workhouse (when they were established) which was dire. Children removed from mothers and high infant mortality. It was chilling to hear (from Call the Midwife) that there was a thing called The Work House Howl - a sound no human should have to make or hear. Sometimes women would take drastic action such as throw their babies in the river because the situation was so impossible for them. I read about this in Margaret Forster's book Hidden Lives: A Family Memoir which draws on the life of her grandmother, a servant with a secret illegitimate daughter)

Whenever I hear people bang on about people on benefits, I always think, well its not perfect but bloody hell - it was spectacularly awful for women in particular before the welfare state and NHS. No wonder they left a feeling of hopelessness in their wake. Shame no one has been able to put the mood to rest as it were, in some of these places.

What is it that leaves a bad vibe ? residual haunting/imprint of sad/mad/bad feelings, an actual spirit, a weird position in the landscape, an unfortunate history of a place, a time slip (I often get the sense time works in a way less obvious than in the linear fashion)?

Obviously a common phenomena to be experienced by some of the population, even the less woo members. Maybe its a mix of these. Or just empathy and imagination when it comes to known historical places.

I once stayed in a very old farmhouse in Wales, they put us in the room next to their prayer room (it was a commune) and I had very vivid dreams about a malevolent spirit who gave me a taste of what having a fractured mind (going mad and not being able to put the pieces of the world together). The spirit was laughing and pleased that it had destroyed a human mind. The weird thing was that this spirit was rolling marbles (ha ha my lost marbles) to me from a gap under the wall - between our room and the prayer room. I woke up in a very cold sweat as it had seemed so real, so malevolent and happy in its evil doing.

Next day I was gardening and someone asked me how I'd slept. To be honest not that well I replied and told her the tale.

She viably blanched and said the room next door to ours had been well known as having something not nice in it and hence they had made it into a prayer room - as no one wanted to sleep there and they thought they might counteract it with good spirit.

I said I didn't want another night in there, and was relocated to a converted barn, which was fine. The funny thing was , though there were tensions amongst the commune, the rest of the place had a very magical and good vibe, and was on the side of a mountain where poets would go traditionally - though it was said you'd be inspired or go mad after a night up there atop the mountain! It was a very 'ancient landscape', but where this nasty spirit had come from I don't know. He was not a relaxing bedfellow is all I can say!

honeyharris · 06/06/2021 13:25

Larne in Northern Ireland. We were there on our way back from a campervan holiday and it felt so oppressive, as though it was about to 'kick off' at any time. There was a direct button to the police station outside the shops. Didn't help that we stealth-camped in a leisure centre car park as our ferry was at 5.30 am and teens in cars came and went all night.

Riga in Latvia - everyone was so dour, it was foggy and still felt very Eastern Bloc

Aosta on the Italian -Swiss border - should have been beautiful but the mountains made you feel hemmed in, I felt weepy the whole time there

Many parts of Wales

Sainte-Etienne

MsMarshaKlein · 06/06/2021 13:30

Newbie near Annan in Dumfries and Ga!loway I think it was originally built for workers at two local factories. I took a wrong turn once and ended up there. I can't even tell you quite why I felt so unsettled but it felt totally Straw Dogs.

osbertthesyrianhamster · 06/06/2021 13:35

Newton Stewart in Dumfries and Galloway. Whole town felt fucking weird.

HerringHelen · 06/06/2021 15:23

In 2010, I was on a business trip. On my way back from Sydney, I had a stop over in Singapore. I checked into a newish hotel (big chain, probably built in the 70s). On check in, I upgraded to a club level room. The only difference with the room itself was a higher floor and nicer power shower. When I walked into the room, I was feeling quite disgruntled with my choice of hotel (quite dated and not as nice as I was used to 😂). When I got into bed that night, I turned off the room lights using the switch next to the bed.

In the early hours, every single light, the bathroom light and tv suddenly came on at the same time. It was terrifying (both the loud sound of the tv and the lights). There’s no way I could have done that myself (I wondered if I’d knocked the switch next to the bed in my sleep, but that switch didn’t work the bathroom light and the tv remote was separate). I stayed awake and checked out first thing!! I took a taxi straight to the Four Seasons. I was much happier there.

Just googled the hotel to find out the name (big central atrium inside, so it was easy to find on photos). It was the Pan Pacific.

RevolvingPivot · 06/06/2021 17:32

Hi just got back. We didn't go into the centre as we visited Whitby and Robinhoods bay.

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Kellymumto2 · 06/06/2021 18:59

Thanks for this! I’m off to coleford later this month! 😂

RevolvingPivot · 06/06/2021 19:17

I think I need a whole new thread just to talk about the taxi drivers in Whitby / Robin Hoods Bay 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Curatingchaos · 06/06/2021 19:24

This is so strange. I opened this thread to say Saltburn. I went as a small child and the place gave me the chills. Horrible, I felt physically sick and begged to turn back.

Hellocatshome · 06/06/2021 19:25

@RevolvingPivot do tell us about the taxi drivers.

RevolvingPivot · 06/06/2021 19:37

We were given 3 taxi numbers. We didn't realise at each firm there was just 1 driver. I live in a city where you can order via an app.

When we phoned to book we were told...

"no really I've had a busy day"
"if you want to get a lift back phone someone else"
"I can come for you but I'm just finishing my tea"
"I'm going to turn my phone off"
"You're in a village now love"
"I can but I'm in Sainsbury's"
"It's like the summer has started already"

Plus the same woman charged us £8 extra for the same journey the next day.

Obviously if our bnb had explained you had to book a taxi 3-4 hours before you needed it we would have understood.

They just didn't seem to want to do their job.

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Hellocatshome · 06/06/2021 19:41

@RevolvingPivot haha yeah Yorkshire villages are very much like that. I grew up in a small Yorkshire village and was pretty much convinced Taxi's only existed in movies until I moved to a city for University when I was shocked to see them everywhere.

RevolvingPivot · 06/06/2021 19:43

We ended up using the same woman 3 times and I was afraid to call her 🤣🤣🤣

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RevolvingPivot · 06/06/2021 19:44

@Curatingchaos

This is so strange. I opened this thread to say Saltburn. I went as a small child and the place gave me the chills. Horrible, I felt physically sick and begged to turn back.
I didn't see this post earlier. Yes how strange 😳
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Back2front · 06/06/2021 20:23

Another vote for Chillingham Castle. It felt so claustrophobic and eerie. We sat in the gardens to have a picnic and even the kids, who were young at the time, felt totally creeped out. A really weird sense of foreboding.

Karmagoat · 06/06/2021 21:53

Most recently, The Isle of Sheppy. Just driving over the crossing gave me the creeps.

GlitterBombing · 06/06/2021 21:57

@thenightsky

Grange over Sands in Cumbria.
Really, why? My grandparents lived there and I love it.

There were a lot of drownings on the sands before the railway was built though. They used to bring children from Liverpool and Manchester to work at the Dolly Blue factory in Backbarrow, a lot got caught on the way over the sands and drowned. The Dolly Blue factory is now the Whitewater hotel and that definitely has a bad vibe.

ChippyDucks150 · 06/06/2021 22:22

There is a luxury resort in Portavadie in Scotland, near Tarbert. It was the most unsettling place I've ever been - we stayed for 4 nights and I never slept properly the entire time, I was up and down checking in the children's room numerous times overnight. It was so unsettling and off kilter.

The other place I've experienced that was the Grand Central Hotel in Glasgow - I couldn't even use the bathroom, i was so freaked out. I showered when I got home the next day.

Lemonwoe · 06/06/2021 22:45

@ChippyDucks150 I also hated the glasgow central hotel. I’m a weegie. But have lived away for some time. I worked in Glasgow for work a lot and did some long hours so rather than stay at my mums on the outskirts of Glasgow, my work would put me up in a hotel. Once there was no other hotels with rooms, so they put me in the central hotel, the room freaked me out so much I got a taxi straight to my mums at 11pm