estar, if we can't be honest with our partners............I think truth is easiest to deal with and he needs to feel that he has contributed in all ways!!
Ruby, thanks for asking, yes, DD1 loved it. I paced daily, nay hourly, and wrung my hands because I was a freak concerned for her safety (not the activities, more her sleepwalking at night off the premises etc). Anyway, I met her at half two on Friday afternoon and I was so pleased to have her home. Felt goooood.
Pixi, I am merely hovering in the ether, and always happy to be ears for you. Give yourself a break sometimes lovely girl xxxx.
Ooogs, its awful. I especially hated the pile of wee next to the toilet. Have you gone all out for total bribery? It helped me enormously. A couple of dolly mixture every time a wee went in the toilet. A Cadbury's chocolate finger for every poo. You can wean them off later.