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D`y ever ever wonder what you would do if you won the lottery?

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triplets · 06/05/2009 20:03

I know what I would do.

  1. Buy a 5 bedroom house so we all get our own room, big garden so James could have a dog.
  1. Get private medical insurance so we never again have to await scans and results.
  1. Buy Shabs a villa in Faliraki.
  1. Throw a big party for all my lovely lovely mad mums on here.
  1. Treat myself to highlights.
  1. Buy bags and bags of M&S choccy nuts!
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frumpygrumpy · 17/06/2009 10:47

FG's FOCUS OF THE DAY:

Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.

Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy.

Max Ehrmann, Desiderata, Copyright 1952.

frumpygrumpy · 17/06/2009 10:49

My mum used to have this posted up beside her mirror. I would read it as I dried my hair and, when I was having a horrible time at school, the words "you are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars, you have a right to be here" used to get me through a multitude of crap.

I know its a bit hippylovelove but I do love it

frumpygrumpy · 17/06/2009 10:53

and this is the Baz Luhrmann tribute to Desiderata Love it.

shabster · 17/06/2009 10:57

My mum has a picture on her stairs with the exact same verses on it - I used to read it every day and I love every word of it....especially the lines that say listen to the dull and ignorant for they have their story....it used to fascinate me....are you sure we arent sisters

shabster · 17/06/2009 11:03

mine and my four sons song

frumpygrumpy · 17/06/2009 11:04

Separated at conception. Too sad!!!

frumpygrumpy · 17/06/2009 11:19

outlaw me I won't stop for anyone

LOL!

triplets · 17/06/2009 13:41

Who changed the page???????????
I love that poem. How weired you both know it, mmmmmmmmmm? Me nad Shabs are twins, so if you were there at the time of conception FG then we are triplets!!!!!!!

Shabs..........how are you feeling today? xx

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triplets · 17/06/2009 13:43

Whats going on? Page changed and told me I have incorrect nickname and password, humf! I think I know them by now!

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shabster · 17/06/2009 13:56

MNet page Trips??? Mine is just the same!

Feel very low Trips - but no migraine today - yet

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frumpygrumpy · 17/06/2009 15:13

Found out that DD1 is getting an award at school so, so proud of her. Got the big lump in my throat and a small waterfall in my eyes.

I love being a triplet! I've only ever had brothers so this is fab

Momma, you're sweet, I loved when you had night time feeds too. Gwan, pop out another, you know you can!

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shabster · 17/06/2009 17:05

WOW Frumpy how fantastic - Im proud of my neice as well. Give her a big Lancashire hug from Auntie Shabbs xxxx

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MERLYPUSS · 17/06/2009 20:48

FG - we played that Baz Lurhmann song at my nephew's funeral. It really summed him up. Especially the 'look after your hair' bit. Alas we will never know if having blue dreadlocks at 20 has any detrimental effect on 40yr old hair.. Can someone kick me up the arse? I feel really grey (well, blueish-grey)and can't motivate myself at all. I am begining to pee myself off as my mum would say, I have a face like a boat.

frumpygrumpy · 17/06/2009 21:05

Merly, you need to talk more........spill xxxxxxxxx.

So earlier, DD1 asked me to explain what a virgin is. I swallowed hard and told her "you know we talked about the willy going in the special hole and dropping off the seed to meet with the egg to make a baby"......"well, someone who hasn't done the willy in the special hole bit, is a virgin". She asked if she was a virgin and asked if she couldn't have a baby. I explain she is a virgin and yes, she can have a baby when she does the willy in the special hole bit.

THEN I asked why she asked.

THEN she told me she had just seen the words 'Virgin Media' on something.

MERLYPUSS · 17/06/2009 21:18

FG - I love that story. A good few years ago we had a family do and my (male) gay friends came along too. My youngest neice asked what 'gay' was and if X was married to Y and why. I sat her down and did the long speach about ''you know most partnerships in our family are both white parents but me and Mr MP are black and white and although it's unusual in people that she knows it doesn't make it wierd - just different. Well, although most partnerships are male/female, X and Y are both male but they are married and although that is unusual too it doesn't make that weird either. Why do you ask? She said she knew all about that but thought Z was his boyfriend!! Flaming kids!!
( I can't spill coz I can't put my finger on why I feel so rubbish. I have no enthusiasm for anything, I lost it big style with Thomas on Monday - I even swore at him and nearly smacked him and he's only 16 mths - Isaac is having eating issues again and I'm just crap at this job.

niche · 17/06/2009 21:53

Merly I blame the water/weather/air delete as appropriate. Honestly I've been feeling the same and just can't shift it, so when you dig yourself out of there throw me the shovel.

FG I love that story. Why are we so quick to answer that we forget to ask why till it's too late?

niche · 17/06/2009 22:00

btw Merly you are NOT a crap mother. You're just going through a rough patch. Your dcs are still small and won't hold it against you. Now, can we help with the eating dilemma?

MERLYPUSS · 17/06/2009 22:13

I have given up with the eating thing to be honest (or at least today I have, I'm fed up with it). His failsafe's are fromage frais, Muller rice, grapes and plain pasta. And if the pasta is the wrong shape it goes flying. He rarely eats veg (used to love sweetcorn, peas and sweet pot) and I am acutely aware that he is doing himself no favours by refusing them. My mum dies of bowel cancer, I have IBS and my sis has an ulcer so he's setting himself up for trouble. On sunday I made risotto as I thought he would like the soft rice. You would think I was trying to poison him. Poor Thomas troughed his down wondering what the wailing was all about. I know people will say starve him until he caves but even Icant be that mean. It's doing my head in.

niche · 17/06/2009 22:57

My dd1 is a picky eater, she'd rather starve than eat something she doesn't like. Yesterday all the other dcs tucked into several helpings of pasta with homemade sauce, dd1 ate plain pasta with grated cheese. She loves breakfast cereals and fruit now and eats some veg/salad, sandwiches and yoghurt, but is really not into dinner type meals. She'll barely look at a potato. She ate mash for the first time yesterday (she grew the spuds but even that didn't persuade her), the sight of her siblings tucking into chocs after dinner spurred her on. It's so wearing. I go to the effort of cooking tasty home cooked meals and she just turns her nose up, I despair. If it wasn't for ds1 and dt1's thriving appetites I think I'd make them all live on ready meals.

shabster · 17/06/2009 22:57

Frumpster that is totally classic.

Merly.....you sound so sad. I am more crap looking after lewis than I was looking after my four sons. We have a different eating 'problem' at ours. I am, to be very honest, obese. When I first met my DH I had a cracking figure, all curvy and beautiful and DH was about 6 stone overweight. Well many years have rolled by and DH is now diabetic - however he has lost the 6 stone plus quite a bit more and I have stayed a fat pig. He goes on, and on, and on, and on, and on and then a bit more to our Tommy. I pray for the day that Tom grows like a weed but stays the same weight. It makes Tommy feel so sad and he thinks his Dad doesnt love him. Please try to stop fretting my darling. We are all different colours, weights, creeds etc but we all matter.

I think the less you fret the more your DS will eat......you are a wonderful Mummy - that is obvious xxxxxx

niche · 17/06/2009 23:05

Shabs you really are my long lost mum. Actually when I was growing up my mum always told me I was adopted...did you happen to deposit a daughter on her doorstep 32 years ago?

My problem is obvious, eating too much and exercising too little. When I took ADs many moons ago, weight fell off me, but I don't like popping pills and can't seem to motivate myself to shift it otherwise.

shabster · 17/06/2009 23:14

Not me Niche!!!! I will gladly be your honorary Mam any day. You know something my darling? You are also a great Mam and I admire how you cope with your beautiful family. We will all 'get there' at the end of the day (I hate that expression - end of the day) and all will be well - ALL WILL BE WELL xxxx

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