FG my saviour, have I missed something, why are you having counselling, please dont say if its personal. Do you know I had no counselling over Matthew, but did over my brother, that was 9 years ago. His wife my lovely sil left him and her two girls ttally out of the blue, ran off with her boss. The girl were 16 and 18, the babies were 4 months old, and hte 18 yr old started squeezing them, literally, so we had to say something and my lovely eldest brother would not speak to us for three years, my fathers death (cancer) brought us together. I just couldnt handle that one, not sure it helped but I am always open to anything that might.
Estar,welcome back to the mad house, DH has bowel cancer with secondaries on his liver, goes into hospital tomorrow, life has changed once again and at the moment I am angry about it, but getting the most wonderful amazing support from everyone on here, xxx