Triplets - thank you for your kind words, yes you're right we do have a lot in common, it seems that life has thrown a lot at us doesn't it? (Sorry for being nosy but read your profile too). I am usually lurking around the bereavement threads and, while it's upsetting to read about recent losses, it also shows me how far I've come since those early days when I didn't think I would ever come through it. It's reassuring to find other people on here who have had an equally tough time, it makes me feel that I'm not alone and that we can support each other through the bad times.
Hope you and your DH have had a good day today. Sending you best wishes.