Hi to all my bosom pals! Thank you all for your lovely mesages first of all. Well today has been quite a day and I am truly physically and mentally exhausted. Took the kids to scholl and drove up to Lewisham arrived at 11pm an hour too early. Parking a nightmare and £2 an hour! Anyway we were first seen by Dr Sharmas registrar, had to go thru the whole story and showed her relevant paper work. By the time I had finished she was crying and so was I. She was soooooooooo concerned for us and said she truly hoped by the end of the day they could give us some answers. We then spoke to Dr Sharma(Tom Conte look alike and lovely voice to boot!)and he said that he too felt that the cause given on Matthews death was probably not correct as we had already been told by several cardiologists.He said although the triplets were biologically not mine he felt they should run full tests on me to see if I carried any syndrome that could hae contributed to Matthews sudden death. He said that although the referal was only for me as Harry was there it would make sense to check him too. At 2pm they started my tests, long echocardiogram, ecg, then 15 min exercise ecg, then the last test which is a fairly new proceedure which carries risks, ie I could have died!They said they had done 80-90 and no-one yet had not survived!!! They injected a drug into my arm which instantly made my head feel really strange and also made you feel that you were wetting yourself! This check was for channelopathy, to do with sodium levels, a now known cause of sudden death syndrome. Well the god news was my test were all clear, so despite my constant palpatations etc I have a healthy heart. Then Dr Sharma changed his mind about checking Harry as as he was not there officially if something happened to him during the drug test they would be in serous trouble. So now he will have to go back, and if he is clear too then we will have the peace of mind that the children have not inherited anything that could cause sudden death, and we will have to accept the fact that we will never know why Matthew died. If they do find something with Harry then the children wil have to be screened, but they say not until they around 15/16yrs as the heart changes so much around that time, as Matthew was only 14 that scared me. But at last after 13yrs someone has listened, knows what they are talking about and has told us we have done the right thing. So we are halfway there. We left the hospital at 5.30pm and battled thru the traffic home and got back at 7.30pm, I am soooo tired. Mars and Frumpy will be pleased to know that my 38c bosom has been on show most of the day!