I like Brighton. Liked the cobbled shopping street and love seaside towns - reminds me of where I grew up.
soks all I can say is you are not alone :( It's so common to have those differences between home and school. Just keep a diary and record everything. Glad J & J are doing well 
Manged to burn poor Shay's arm. We were cooking, and the dts love helping. He was making salad or something, chopping on a board on the counter, and I was frying off stuff for fajitas. The pan was far too hot, and spat out oil when I put in the ingredients. Lovely burn on his forearm the size of a silver dollar. Been dressing it, but school aren't taking it seriously at all. One teacher told him he should leave it uncovered and another kid poked it so it burst.
I like the break, but I hate them going back to school. they become antsy, fighty, stressed, weepy. Will be so bloody glad when they leave that school.