Hello everyone, late to the party I know but life has been your proverbial quart into a pint pot and I have let plenty of stuff slide so don't feel neglected!
I actually think in all seriousness the stress of this year has exhausted my systems and I seem to reel from one ailment to another. I've had conjunctivitis for 2 months and currently have a cold-cum-sinusitis which is unbelievably painful. I suppose it's like toothache, which I haven't had for aeons but dimly remember being spirit-sapping. This is a mofo and no mistake, hence posting time. At times like this, the lack of a solid support network (yes mum and dad, looking at you) really hits home.
Have been keeping up with news regardless, and congrats for the various little ones' birthdays and successes on driving tests, house moves, new jobs and school starters.
My two are 2.9 now and so brilliant bloody exhausting to be around. Chatter is non-stop and often very funny, they are interested in literally everything that happens to them and one of the great developments to observe is the awareness of past/present/future, so that you can talk about things they have done, places they've been etc and things that haven't happened yet. We're going to see the Gruffalo at the theatre tomorrow and I think they will love that (had a trial run with a little play a few weeks ago which went pretty well and they remember enjoying, so hoping to build on that).
For Christmas we're doing a shared present for one more year while they're still little - a toy garage with lift, ramp, petrol pump etc. I remember hugely wanting one of those when I was young (and never getting it of course!) so am definitely projecting my own tastes/disappointments onto them. Do you find you do that too?! They'll also get some clothes, S is into Wallace and Gromit since our holiday so we have got the DVD of all the films for him, and R still loves anything fiddly so I'm trying her with lacing beads and a board thing that allows them to practice using fastenings like zips, buttons etc (Melissa & Doug) which I hope she'll love.
Potty training has not been successful yet and they're still in cot beds but now have duvets and pillows, which were huge hits. I asked my mum to get another set of bedding for their present, since we are hostage to accidental weeing on the one set we have - she went and bought a set for single beds rather than cot beds (which I understand will be twice as big as the duvets) and refuses to take them back and get anything else because these ones were cheap. This is what I am working with .