Hi,
good luck for Monday is all I can say. Dh went two weeks ago to 'sign on' for the first time on his life. They couldn't/wouldn't give us any advice with regards to any other help we could get, just gave him a number to call.
I may be naive but it seems to be incredibly unfair this benefits system business. We have both worked since leaving school,Me going back after having both my children . Im due to have our third in june and we have a mortgage. When dh lost his job a month ago , I was relieved to hear that you can get help with your mortgage, and as we are pregnant maybe a £500 maternity grant, as well as other benefits such as council tax benefit. It would certainly all help as I only work part time and earn about £200 a month.
We were told that because dh has worked and therefore paid enough NI contributions he is 'eligable' for contribution based job seekers allowance' Great I thought, because he's paid into the pot we will get help. Um,no. Thats not how it works. Because he has paid in to the fund that helps support people who cant work, he is entitled to £64 a week and nothing else. However after 6 months he can go onto an income based job seekers, which means we would get £64 a week plus all the other beneifts too, including help with our mortgage.
So basically we have to keep hold of my home on no salary for 6 mths before they help you, I have no savings - how do i keep my home for that 6 months? And if they only help people who are on income based jsa - these people mustnt have worked to pay enough NI , so how have they even got a mortgage in the first place?
Ive never used the benefits system before, but I dont understand how its fair, that the more you put into the pot the less you are allowed to take out when needed. I dont understand why the benfit people dont say ' ah hello mr so and so , youve paid NI and tax all your life, come here and let us give you full help for a while, not indefinately, maybe just for a year until you get back on you feet, or if you find a job before then'.But they dont , they put the families who have never contributed anything first.
My husband has no income. We cannot pay our bills. The same as other families I know. The difference is they have never worked, have been given a house and get everything paid for by the state.both of our families are in the same boat. Why are their children being put before mine? O I know why ... because my husband worked for a living.
It really makes me think what is the point of trying to look after yourselves, it doesnt get you any where.
Rant over.