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Do all 18 years old go on UC if they cannot find a job

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Crystalovertherainbow · 01/02/2026 20:52

Do the family needs to show their income or the new adult is considered their own financial unit now , even if they live with the parents and their UC is given them

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selffellatingouroborosofhate · 03/02/2026 23:34

Antiquerosegold · 03/02/2026 18:05

I said food as it is essential. I am sure people can turn their heat off as it is not essential.

Many people have had to cut back on heating. There are pensioners choosing between food and warmth.

Benefits are a temporary measure.

Children have died because of the mould that grows in unheated houses. The heating isn't just to warm the people, but to stop damp from condensing on the walls. And your landlord will hold you responsible if a pipe freezes and bursts.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 03/02/2026 23:46

Crystalovertherainbow · 03/02/2026 18:12

I have a colleague in my current job who is 30smth....he calls his girlfriend every day on the phone who is a bit needy...she had a carer's job and this is what she wants to do full time but neither of them drive and currently live in a village. So she applies for jobs, but only care home jobs to which she can catch a bus. How they live so young in a village house? She must be claiming loads

In the UK, if they were offered social housing, they won't have been able to be picky about where the house is. My mum's village is full of poor families in social housing, because the rent for social housing tenants is usually paid in full by housing benefit. I'm sure they'd all love to live somewhere that has more than one bus per hour to the nearest town and buses on Sundays, but they don't get to be choosy.

50 years ago, most of the families renting those same houses, which were "council houses" (aka social housing owned by local government) then, would have had the husband working as a coal miner and would have paid their own rent. And there'd have been more buses for the wives to get work in the towns.

I will keep on repeating that the problem isn't the dole claimants, it's the lack of jobs.

ArtificialStupidity · 03/02/2026 23:49

Vivi0 · 03/02/2026 22:23

And I absolutely get that.

Earlier on in the thread, there were posters saying that it doesn’t matter if 18 year olds could be supported by their parents, that they should claim UC anyway because they are entitled to it and that it would be good for them.

My view is that benefits should only be claimed if needed, not because you are entitled to them.

I completely understand your position. Not everyone can afford to support their 18 year old. That is not what I took issue with.

I agree.its staggering to realise how greedy and entitled people are
The country will break under the weight of people just taking everything they can..

Entirely different in a household on the breadline

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 04/02/2026 00:01

Antiquerosegold · 03/02/2026 18:19

Benefits should be temporary. It is up to the individual to turn their life around.

I have been out of work and had numerous varied perso al struggles and claimed nothing. I had to keep my living expenses below the poverty level. In that situation £400 sounds comfortable.

Show me the jobs.

People cannot get jobs that don't exist. Making benefits temporary doesn't change that.

Self-employment for most people is not viable unless they are a time-served tradesperson. The market for people working as freelance haircutters, gardeners, manicurists, soap makers, scented candle makers, Body Shop reps, etc is utterly saturated.

Benefits claimants have died because they ran out of money:

The State covers it up by refusing inquests, even when it's obvious to anyone who can read that a type one diabetic whose electricity has been cut off cannot store his insulin and so can no longer take it.

Time-limiting benefits will kill more people.

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selffellatingouroborosofhate · 04/02/2026 00:08

TomvJerry · 03/02/2026 19:11

Carers are wanted everyday if she likes working with old people then she won't be unemployed got long. It's one of the easiest jobs to get because of the large turn over of staff in these homes. I don't get it?

I remember someone in my mum's village losing her care home job when the Sunday and late evening buses got scrapped. Working Sundays was mandatory, as was working until 10pm on the late shift. She could't get to and from work.

You can be willing to do the job, but if the transport isn't there, you are screwed.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 04/02/2026 00:16

Vivi0 · 03/02/2026 19:51

Do you think it's OK for children to commit criminal acts like that?

I’m a criminal because I did stock taking in my mum’s friend’s bar on a Sunday, and occasionally served regulars drinks who came in early on a Sunday morning?

My mum’s friend also recommended me to the manager of another bar, and I would serve food in there on Saturdays and help at the bar when it was busy.

I also served food and drinks at concerts at large venues, and worked at festivals “illegally”.

And?

This was the early 2000s.

Whilst you’re busy getting your knickers in a twist about it, I’ve built an incredibly successful business, which actually has absolutely nothing to do with my degree or education, but everything to do with the strong work ethic I’ve developed as a result of my “criminal acts”.

I’m from a working class background, and my parents made is very clear that not working was just not an option for me. Picking up jobs here and there, for relatives/friends of our parents, was just the done thing. No one claimed benefits, it was never an option.

Now, the done thing seems to be claiming benefits instead. Children being encouraged to claim benefits, by parents who are claiming benefits.

I truly believe benefits have killed off something in people. Drive, perhaps?

I fully intend on having my children come and do work for me in my business when they are teenagers. It might be “criminal” to you, but I couldn’t give a fuck. it will teach them lessons and give them experience that education never will.

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It is illegal under the Licencing Act, and has been been for a very long time, for someone under 18 to serve alcohol.

You get caught by a police test purchaser and you get a criminal record. That's going to look great on your kid's CV, isn't it?

"It'll never happen" works fine until it does happen.

Perhaps your kids can start their "lessons" and "experience" and "drive" by selling cocaine? It's far more lucrative than alcohol and you're clearly OK with them breaking the law.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 04/02/2026 00:21

Vivi0 · 03/02/2026 21:08

I don’t need to back the fuck off from anything.

I do realise that families are poor. I grew up amongst poor families. My husband is from a poor family. But what you seem to be overlooking, is that one of the factors that contributes to the cycle of poverty are the benefits themselves.

Which is why I am so against 18 year olds being encouraged to claim benefits. I don’t have time to look into it, but I would bet there is a correlation between young people claiming benefits early in life, and being dependent on benefits later on in life.

I’m not a “snob” as you keep calling me. Nor am I looking down my nose at anyone. I’m just really sad that 18 year olds are claiming benefits, and wonder what life will look like for them 10 years down the line, because benefits most definitely keep people stuck. They are a trap and it would be best if as many young people as possible were prevented from taking that path.

But what you seem to be overlooking, is that one of the factors that contributes to the cycle of poverty are the benefits themselves.

No. It's the lack of jobs. Generations of sons followed their fathers down the pits and into the shipyards and steelworks until the pits and yards and works were closed. The intergenerational benefits claiming since then is because the jobs have gone.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 04/02/2026 00:26

Antiquerosegold · 03/02/2026 21:23

This stood out

I claimed benefits at 19. I have a degree and two post grads and another Ba

You are obviously well educated and capable of a successful career. I.e a person who can override the knocks you experienced later in life. Did you make financial provisions during the good times?

Far too many people live one paycheque away from crisis, including most of the PhD-holding research associates I work with.

An education does not guarantee a high income.

Vivi0 · 04/02/2026 00:28

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 04/02/2026 00:16

It is illegal under the Licencing Act, and has been been for a very long time, for someone under 18 to serve alcohol.

You get caught by a police test purchaser and you get a criminal record. That's going to look great on your kid's CV, isn't it?

"It'll never happen" works fine until it does happen.

Perhaps your kids can start their "lessons" and "experience" and "drive" by selling cocaine? It's far more lucrative than alcohol and you're clearly OK with them breaking the law.

It is illegal under the Licencing Act, and has been been for a very long time, for someone under 18 to serve alcohol.

You get caught by a police test purchaser and you get a criminal record. That's going to look great on your kid's CV, isn't it?

"It'll never happen" works fine until it does happen.

It was over 20 years ago, I’m not losing any sleep over it.

Perhaps your kids can start their "lessons" and "experience" and "drive" by selling cocaine? It's far more lucrative than alcohol and you're clearly OK with them breaking the law.

Excuse me?

What do you mean I am okay with my kids breaking the law? They aren’t even teenagers yet.

I can get them selling cocaine?

What is wrong with you?

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 04/02/2026 00:59

Vivi0 · 03/02/2026 23:05

Which is nothing to do with this thread, which is about 18 plus year olds claiming UC while job-hunting.

Well, we are at page 30 of a thread and posts have been going back and forth for some time. Conversations evolve and not every single comment will remain on topic 🤷‍♀️

Irrelevant if parents have ever claimed benefits. Youth unemployment is a big issue just now.

It’s not irrelevant. And you may consider it a bit benefits bashing, but studies have show that children of benefit claimants are statistically more likely to claim benefits as adults compared to children from non-claimant households. And this isn’t just limited to the UK.

Of course, there are a number of factors that influence this. But it does suggest a cycle of benefits.

I didn't claim benefits because my Mum said it was OK to, or because she had shown me that example during the worst seven months of my childhood, but because she needed me to pay her board money and I needed money to get to job interviews and learn to drive.

My Mum didn't claim benefits because her parents had done so, because they didn't, never needed to. Her dad was a pitman and her mum was a nurse, so they were never out of work. My Mum claimed benefits because she needed to feed her children. Note: I don't mention feeding herself because she was skipping feeding herself breakfast and lunch and hoping we didn't notice. By the end of the seven months, you could see her ribs. I could not in conscience burden her financially again by not claiming JSA as an adult.

Now, I'll concur that the children of benefits claimants are more likely to claim benefits than the children of those who have never claimed. That correlation exists. But the late-90s GCSE History syllabus had as a learning outcome "understanding that correlation does not imply causality". Here's a list of far more likely causes for that correlation:

  • People who inherit wealth are less likely to claim benefits than those who do not, because of exceeding the means-testing threshold.
  • People who have the social connections to avoid unemployment through getting unadvertised positions are likely to use those social connection to recommend their children for unadvertised job vacancies. (Do you know of a single child in your kids' classes who got a "work experience week" place other than through the parents arranging it?)
  • People who earn enough to be able to save an emergency fund that exceeds the means-testing threshold for IB are likely to make sufficient financial provision for their children so that the children can't claim, at least not straight away.

None of those three likely causal factors have anything to do with the parents' attitude towards benefits, but they might be related to whether the parents need to claim benefits.

The intergenerational problem isn't claiming benefits, it's poverty and lack of jobs.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 04/02/2026 01:00

Vivi0 · 04/02/2026 00:28

It is illegal under the Licencing Act, and has been been for a very long time, for someone under 18 to serve alcohol.

You get caught by a police test purchaser and you get a criminal record. That's going to look great on your kid's CV, isn't it?

"It'll never happen" works fine until it does happen.

It was over 20 years ago, I’m not losing any sleep over it.

Perhaps your kids can start their "lessons" and "experience" and "drive" by selling cocaine? It's far more lucrative than alcohol and you're clearly OK with them breaking the law.

Excuse me?

What do you mean I am okay with my kids breaking the law? They aren’t even teenagers yet.

I can get them selling cocaine?

What is wrong with you?

If you are OK with your kids pulling pints under-age, then why not get them selling hard drugs? It's just as illegal, and more lucrative.

There's nothing wrong with me. I'm not the one crowing about breaking the law as a teen to build a work ethic.

Vivi0 · 04/02/2026 01:04

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 04/02/2026 01:00

If you are OK with your kids pulling pints under-age, then why not get them selling hard drugs? It's just as illegal, and more lucrative.

There's nothing wrong with me. I'm not the one crowing about breaking the law as a teen to build a work ethic.

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I never once said my kids are pulling pints under age?

Again, what are you talking about?

And please stop mentioning my kids selling drugs. It’s disgusting.

TheOutlier · 04/02/2026 01:29

Claim benefits? No. I have had to pay many thousands every year past 18 to support my kids at university. Neither have ever claimed benefits. Each has done four year courses. They have jobs. I don’t believe there is anywhere in the U.K. where it’s impossible to get work if you are a keenish young person prepared to try most things.

TheOutlier · 04/02/2026 01:42

I’d add KFC is usually always hiring.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 04/02/2026 01:45

Vivi0 · 04/02/2026 01:04

I never once said my kids are pulling pints under age?

Again, what are you talking about?

And please stop mentioning my kids selling drugs. It’s disgusting.

Edited

You said you pulled pints underage and later that you would give your kids work experience in your business. I took it that your kids would be pulling pints in your business, whilst teens. Yes?

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 04/02/2026 01:47

TheOutlier · 04/02/2026 01:42

I’d add KFC is usually always hiring.

The nearest KFC to my mum is seven miles along a 60mph road with no footpaths or streetlights. The buses are hourly, don't run on Sundays, and stop at 9pm.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 04/02/2026 01:47

TheOutlier · 04/02/2026 01:29

Claim benefits? No. I have had to pay many thousands every year past 18 to support my kids at university. Neither have ever claimed benefits. Each has done four year courses. They have jobs. I don’t believe there is anywhere in the U.K. where it’s impossible to get work if you are a keenish young person prepared to try most things.

Tell me you've never lived in inland Northumberland without telling me...

Vivi0 · 04/02/2026 01:50

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 04/02/2026 01:45

You said you pulled pints underage and later that you would give your kids work experience in your business. I took it that your kids would be pulling pints in your business, whilst teens. Yes?

No - you are very, very wrong.

My mother’s friend managed a bar and she would pay me to do her stock check on Sundays when I was a teenager. She also taught me how to pour pints and would occasionally allow me to serve drinks to her regulars when the pub was quiet I.e. Sunday mornings.

I will absolutely give my children work experience in my business, but I have no idea where you got the idea they would be pulling pints from because I don’t own a bar and I never said that I did.

TheOutlier · 04/02/2026 01:54

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 04/02/2026 01:47

The nearest KFC to my mum is seven miles along a 60mph road with no footpaths or streetlights. The buses are hourly, don't run on Sundays, and stop at 9pm.

Edited

So catch the bus. I also commute a good hour and a half to work myself. If you want the work you find a way. Buy a bike? Or borrow one? It would be good for your health too.

TheOutlier · 04/02/2026 01:56

I admit I helped my kids compile their CVs originally and I drove them places for work or interviews or work experience. It’s basically what people do to get their kids started and then they become net contributors instead of just taking from the system.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 04/02/2026 02:11

TheOutlier · 04/02/2026 01:54

So catch the bus. I also commute a good hour and a half to work myself. If you want the work you find a way. Buy a bike? Or borrow one? It would be good for your health too.

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Me: The buses are hourly, don't run on Sundays, and stop at 9pm.

You: So catch the bus.

Which part of "don't run on Sundays and stop at 9pm" weren't you able to read?

Me: The nearest KFC to my mum is seven miles along a 60mph road with no footpaths or streetlights.

You: Buy a bike? Or borrow one?

On 60mph roads at night with no streetlighting?

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 04/02/2026 02:19

TheOutlier · 04/02/2026 01:56

I admit I helped my kids compile their CVs originally and I drove them places for work or interviews or work experience. It’s basically what people do to get their kids started and then they become net contributors instead of just taking from the system.

I lived alongside families where no one could drive. The men walked to work at the pit until it shut, and then they couldn't afford lessons or a car. I now live next to a family where dad can drive but the family can't afford a car. Luckily, I'm now in an urban environment, so buses are plentiful.

My own mum didn't have a licence until I was fifteen.

Some people do not have that ability to give their kids that support of lifts to interviews and work.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 04/02/2026 02:20

Vivi0 · 04/02/2026 01:50

No - you are very, very wrong.

My mother’s friend managed a bar and she would pay me to do her stock check on Sundays when I was a teenager. She also taught me how to pour pints and would occasionally allow me to serve drinks to her regulars when the pub was quiet I.e. Sunday mornings.

I will absolutely give my children work experience in my business, but I have no idea where you got the idea they would be pulling pints from because I don’t own a bar and I never said that I did.

My mistake, for which I am sorry. I thought you had gone into the licenced trade yourself.

TheOutlier · 04/02/2026 02:34

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 04/02/2026 02:11

Me: The buses are hourly, don't run on Sundays, and stop at 9pm.

You: So catch the bus.

Which part of "don't run on Sundays and stop at 9pm" weren't you able to read?

Me: The nearest KFC to my mum is seven miles along a 60mph road with no footpaths or streetlights.

You: Buy a bike? Or borrow one?

On 60mph roads at night with no streetlighting?

Oh you do like to find obstacles. Work that’s in the daytime? On week days? Fast food does offer some flexibility.

You seem to have every reason going for not working.

Yes, I understand the bus is once an hour. So set your alarm for the correct time, go to the stop when it’s due and then catch it. I live somewhere where the trains are only once every 30mins. It has never been a problem.

TheOutlier · 04/02/2026 02:58

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 04/02/2026 02:19

I lived alongside families where no one could drive. The men walked to work at the pit until it shut, and then they couldn't afford lessons or a car. I now live next to a family where dad can drive but the family can't afford a car. Luckily, I'm now in an urban environment, so buses are plentiful.

My own mum didn't have a licence until I was fifteen.

Some people do not have that ability to give their kids that support of lifts to interviews and work.

But some people do. Your question was “do all 18-year-olds claim UC?” No, they don’t because they get jobs or go to uni and probably parents support them until they get themselves sorted, as they have done their entire lives to that point. Be thankful they do get this support because if everyone claimed benefits the country would truly be bankrupt. Benefits are a safety net not a lifestyle choice. At 18 you should have some sort of plan for the future. Or you could join the forces?

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