I didn't claim benefits because my Mum said it was OK to, or because she had shown me that example during the worst seven months of my childhood, but because she needed me to pay her board money and I needed money to get to job interviews and learn to drive.
My Mum didn't claim benefits because her parents had done so, because they didn't, never needed to. Her dad was a pitman and her mum was a nurse, so they were never out of work. My Mum claimed benefits because she needed to feed her children. Note: I don't mention feeding herself because she was skipping feeding herself breakfast and lunch and hoping we didn't notice. By the end of the seven months, you could see her ribs. I could not in conscience burden her financially again by not claiming JSA as an adult.
Now, I'll concur that the children of benefits claimants are more likely to claim benefits than the children of those who have never claimed. That correlation exists. But the late-90s GCSE History syllabus had as a learning outcome "understanding that correlation does not imply causality". Here's a list of far more likely causes for that correlation:
- People who inherit wealth are less likely to claim benefits than those who do not, because of exceeding the means-testing threshold.
- People who have the social connections to avoid unemployment through getting unadvertised positions are likely to use those social connection to recommend their children for unadvertised job vacancies. (Do you know of a single child in your kids' classes who got a "work experience week" place other than through the parents arranging it?)
- People who earn enough to be able to save an emergency fund that exceeds the means-testing threshold for IB are likely to make sufficient financial provision for their children so that the children can't claim, at least not straight away.
None of those three likely causal factors have anything to do with the parents' attitude towards benefits, but they might be related to whether the parents need to claim benefits.
The intergenerational problem isn't claiming benefits, it's poverty and lack of jobs.