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Moving in with boyfriend

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Pandywebb · 06/03/2018 18:02

I would like some thoughts/advice about moving in with my boyfriend. I earn about £60000 per year and own my own house with a large mortgage. He earns £200000 + per annum and has no mortgage on his house. I am moving knot his house but not selling mine and putting tenants in it to help pay the mortgage although I will still pay bills and council tax. My boyfriend wants me to pay £500 per month from me to cover bills and shopping but I think this is very steep considering he has no mortgage, I still have a house to maintain and he has his two young children approximately 70% of the week. He has cancelled his cleaner as I do all the cleaning in his house even though we don’t live together yet...am I alone in thinking he is just asking for too much money?

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Desmondo2016 · 02/04/2018 12:25

Your relationship is not a healthy one. You sound resentful of his kids and he sounds more interested in you being a tenant than a partner.

I would only ever live with someone if we had a fully joint and fair approach to everything.

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