cozietoesie I am thoroughly ashamed of my brother, but I have boundless respect for the MN members who have come forward and told the truth. I'd like to give them all a big hug and a thank-you. I had to go through a similar process myself when I wrote the account of what my brother and his 'Amway' handlers did to me, and I know how painful admitting you were tricked, can be.
There are plenty of ex-'MLM' adherents who will never face the truth. My brother being a classic example. He was a cowardly-bully and narcissistic personality, prior to his entering 'Amway.' He was, in many respects, the perfect target for a cult, because the cult gave him a false-justification to abuse people.
Rather than tell the truth, my brother once claimed in a reality-inverting written statement to a French court that he was never involved in 'Amway,' but he believed that I was.
I think my brother has told the same lies so often, that he now believes them to be the truth.
Fortunately, I retain a copy of Amagram magazine with my brother's photo in it and my Blog speaks for itself.