Please hold my hand while I miscarry very scared

[Tweetypie27]

I’m 10 weeks baby died at around 6.5 sac was measuring 7 weeks. I had no option for any treatment till Monday. The bleeding has begun I’m so scared I’ve never been so scared as I am right now. It’s started off slow but I’ve miscarried before at seven weeks and it started like this then was fast and brutal.
But not to painful thankfully.
im scared incase I bleed to death my kids are at their dads thankfully. Help me through the night :-(

Oh Lord, yes. Other women announcing pregnancies is always awful to endure.

You'll feel weak and wobbly while you're anaemic, too. Are you managing to eat anything which contains iron or is eating too difficult for you?

Make sure you're drinking plenty of fluids, even if you can't face food. I think it's still very early days in terms of feeling better goes.

Did you sleep last night?

Glad you're feeling a bit better physically.

Totally with you on the announcements. I went back to work and one of the ladies in the cafe is 5 month pregnant and really showing and then another girl popped in to see my team after her maternity and asked if there was any gossip and the men in my team were like "oh xyz will tell you" and she said turned to me and went "omg are you pregnant" er no I'm not!!

Oh OP your experience is so very similar to mine a few years ago. Slow slow start that dragged on, no action from the NHS, they were absolutely useless and no compassion whatsoever. When it did start it was dramatic, shocking haemorrhaging. I ended up in A&E by ambulance.

I'm so sorry you had to suffer this. Miscarriage care is utterly woeful. I experienced PTSD and had counselling which helped so please ask for this if you find you're still struggling xxx

I did sleep I slept to long 11 hours felt worse from it. The mornings are the worst I have panic attacks.
The pregnancy announcements are hard all due when I would of been too I feel so jealous but do not want to try again I’ve got four but my little girl was born after a big gap with my current partner so she’s going to be like an only child 8 year gap so we wanted a sibling for her but I don’t want to go through this again.
It’s hard I have four two are teens one leaving school and my other son is not far behind him.
It’s hard knowing I ended my baby days on this note but this has broken me more then I ever thought possible.
So sorry for you all who have been in this position 😪

It scared me so much rather give birth ten times over then what I went through I’m making my partner change the whole bathroom as I panic in there and can’t close the door we’re re tiling the whole thing.
I feel like it’s mentally affected me so much I will never forget the baby either haunts me.

@Tweetypie27 try looking up PETALS counselling service. I totally understand... I had flashbacks in our downstairs loo for ages and find any bleeding very traumatic.

I did have another baby though. I only had one and wanted a sibling for her so I took a gamble and tried again.

I’m really happy it worked out for you I had a MC between my first two and went again but I was younger then and the MC wasn’t as traumatic as this one so I don’t think I can.
physically I feel stronger today but mentally I know it will take longer. I guess we just have to take each day as it comes with these things.

Just to update feel much better in my
self but test is still showing pos and boobs still tender 😪😪

Mine did for ages too, I think it does take time so try not to stress about that if possible. Sending lots of love and glad you're feeling better x

Oh really I felt like my boobs went normal now their sore again so confusing to me 😪

Oh honey. It takes time. You're doing well. X

My boobs were sore for quite a while after. They will get better x

Thanks ladies just want to be back to normal and know where my body is and what it is doing.

Just wanted to update the thread and bring it to a close that I’m feeling a lot better physically now. I will never forget what I’ve gone through it was a long hard road but I see more hope now.
we haven’t discussed trying again and I don’t think I want too after what happened.
Thanks for all the wonderful support on here.

❤️I felt this way when it happened to me 2 years ago it truly was the worst thing I’ve ever been though you a strong person times heals

You sound more positive ❤️

Hope you're well on the way to feeling like yourself again. Take care 🥰

Thanks both ❤️❤️