Hi iv looked on mums net since my 1st pregnancy and I bleed and came here to read others stories. Iv had 3 miscarriage 1st October 2021 2nd February 2022 3rd July 2022. Iv now been referred and awaiting an appointment to see a specialist. Anyone else been through recurrent miscarriage and been successful after? The first was really bad passed natural but awful. The second hurrendous never seen so much blood in my life and resulted in a d&c the third fine generally like a period but my god it done it's toll on my mental health. I generally believed I suffered depression for that week it was the worst iv ever felt. I just want to know what to expect when we get our referal appointment and did these appointments help anyone? I'm 31 and married we've been together 10 years and so ready for our next step. Thanks for reading kkon x
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Kappi · 25/07/2022 13:51
Sorry for your losses - it is just so unfair that they happen. I just wanted you to know you aren't alone, when it can feel like everywhere you look there's reminders of what you don't have right now.
I've just suffered a miscarriage - it was my first pregnancy.
Although my journey is different I just wanted to reach out and offer my support. I had read posts on MN whilst pregnant to gain reassurance - it was only when I miscarried that I felt I would post. I think I'm the first to post but you aren't alone - thoughts are with you x
ButterflyGal · 28/07/2022 21:45
I’m sorry you’re having such a hard time. Tommy’s has fantastic resources including a phone line if you need to chat things over with a midwife (who are also trained in bereavement). They also have lots of resources about recurrent miscarriage. Hopefully they will be able to help you find a reason for your losses 💕
Awats93 · 29/07/2022 19:36
So sorry to hear about your losses. I just wanted to give you abit of hope, I’ve had multiple miscarriages, I had 3 then had my daughter now 2 with no issues with pregnancy. I never got to the referral as I didn’t wait to try conceive again after my 3rd loss. I hope you get the answers you need from the doctors.
julie123098 · 29/07/2022 20:56
So sorry for your losses @kkon - sending hugs
I have just had a second - first Feb, then this one which hasn't yet passed but is a missed miscarriage - I'm waiting to pass it naturally.
I am considering testing now too even though I couldn't get it on the NHS yet but it's so traumatic I really don't want to go through it all again if I can avoid it.
Let us know how you get on and best of luck.
MissT123 · 29/07/2022 22:14
I'm so sorry for your losses. I remember how truly awful it is to experience MC 💔. But I want to give you some hope. I had 3 consecutive MCs. I was referred for testing, but they never found a cause, my scan and bloods were all 'normal' .
I then got pregnant with my little boy with no problem (he's 2 now) and currently pregnant with baby no. 2.
When I was experiencing my MCs I found Tommy's were really helpful.
Take care OP and look after yourself x
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