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Babyloss Remembering lost twin?
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strawbbaby · 14/02/2021 15:21

Little bit sensitive subject and don’t want to upset anyone —A family member sadly lost a twin to twin on twin transfusion a few years ago Through premature birth , the surviving twin is now a toddler and doing great :) . I brought a card and plant to remember her on the first anniversary of her death for them , however don’t know whether to continue to do this as don’t want to overstep the mark or cause upset , as I know they do like to remember her and I’m aware that the mum sometimes feel people forget she had two babies , any mummies know what’s appropriate to do, I don’t want to ignore the fact that there was two babies on birthday etc Obviously buy a gift for the toddler , but should I also get a Little token like flowers or something for the twin that is a star??

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Solomon1212 · 14/02/2021 19:58

I think thats a lovely thing to do and probably well recieved by mum. She had 2 babies and will always remember the other on her others birthday. X

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Scirocco · 14/02/2021 21:35

I think that's a lovely idea. ❤️❤️

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