11 weeks pregnant.. Think I'm miscarrying

[Dollymixture77]

Hi there

I'm 43 and 11 weeks pregnant today.
Straight forward pregnancy so far until last night. I experienced a small amount of brown discharge.

This morning I have a small amount of dark red blood with a dull lower back ache.
I also have some stretching sensations in the right side of my stomach
But no Cramps as yet.

I didn't think I would fall pregnant again, so when I did I wasn't sure how I felt. I Have 2 boys already and just thought I would now be too old to concieve.

But the thought now I could be losing this baby has filled me with dread and it has made me realise I always wanted a 3rd.

I know it's just a case of seeing how this pans out.. And there's not much I can do.

But I was just wondering if any of you ladies out there have experienced a similar thing and might share your thoughts on how it all turned out.

@keeponmovin123

Hi there

Thank you for checking in on me..

It's gone :(.. I am feeling sad and quite empty but I'm ok.. Dealing with it much better than last time. Maybe I just expected it..?
I think overall I am thankful that it didn't drag out as before.

So I have been able to process it quicker.. And my partner has been so wonderful.. Particularly as he didn't even know I was pregnant this time - nobody did.. Except MN. I Had a private scan booked last week so I could confirm a viable pregnancy before I told anybody.. Didn't make it that far...

Not sure which way I want to go now.. If my eggs are up to scratch..or If I can even make anything stick anymore..

Anybody else struggling with what to do next? It's not in my nature to give up, but equally I don't want it to become all too life Consuming.. With no cigar.

Hope you're all having a peaceful Sunday 🙏

So sorry to hear this. Rest up and take it easy if you can xx

Hi @Dollymixture77 I've just read your full rollercoaster of a thread, and I'm so so sorry you find yourself here again. Take care of yourself and give yourself the time you need.

When, and if, you're ready, I would recommend you give 'it starts with the egg' a read. It has lots of info specific to women who have had multiple miscarriages, and how you can improve egg quality etc

In the meantime, and of course