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Recurrent Miscarriage Support thread 14 - tests, treatment, trying again

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Justonemoretime · 29/11/2014 17:38

Information, support, hand holding, tea, sympathy and a hell of a lot of combined knowledge - all welcome as we try to make sense of the RMC roller coaster of tests, NHS admin, heart ache and (hopefully) happy endings!
Please start with a recap of your stats :)

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Justonemoretime · 08/12/2014 22:48

Hi Monten, good to hear from you and thanks :) My AFs were shorter and lighter after 6 ops over the years and it turned out I had a septum which Prof Regan removed. Hope you find someone to do investigations on the NHS.
Got scanxiety for tomorrow Shock been out tonight with friends who know a bit of history and they were all being really lovely but I don't want to jinx things so I was playing it down.
Boozle, so pleased for you!!! Yay! Grin
Waves to everyone. On my phone so can't name check everyone. xx

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bootles · 08/12/2014 23:17

Hello new people, sorry you find yourselves here.

boozle great news! Fantastic to hear. We are here to listen to your neurosis, really we are.

sasha no apology needed for the sadder posts - that also is surely why we are hear!

cloud absolutely agree with others comments. Do something for you - god knows you deserve it and no doubt need it.

just good luck for tomorrow.

Scanxiety is huge for tomorrow. Need to recapture the Zen approach. Where the hell is the Zen approach when you need it?!

bootles · 08/12/2014 23:18

Here not hear. It was the computer not me...honestly.

Justonemoretime · 08/12/2014 23:24

Good luck Bootles. xx

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tannyLoo · 09/12/2014 04:27

Boozle yay yay yay! You don't need to worry about annoying us with your worries, that's what we're here for! So pleased to hear your scan news x

Just and Bootles crossing everything for your scans tomorrow...

Monten welcome, I also recognise you from the TTC after MC thread. Sorry for your losses. Lots of us know how horrible the second MC can be, as we're told all the stats that should be in our favour, and then they aren't. Really good that you're getting testing offered after two.

Its half past four and I'm awake. Whittling and uncomfortable.

On the plus side, am 28 weeks today. Wowzers.

Marchgirl · 09/12/2014 06:30

Good to hear from you boozle and great news on the scan front. This is a big scan week. Everything crossed for all the scans tomorrow. Keep the good news flowing Smile

Well on the Christmas front, I am going to try and make myself feel as christmassy as possible. Last year Christmas fell in the 3 weeks between mmc diagnosis and medical management, so I spent the whole time puking from the HG and crying about the impending MC. So I Am refusing to let this thing ruin another Christmas. Going to stay busy and try and enjoy it.
Can't think of anything more less christmassy than starting my suppositories on Christmas day, which I might have to do Xmas Hmm. Ho Ho ho!

Boozle80 · 09/12/2014 06:56

What time's your scan Bootles? Zen like approach is nearly impossible to capture although I do have a great image of you in the waiting room, on the floor, crossed legged and meditating away :). Maybe I should try that for my next one! Xx

TinyTear · 09/12/2014 07:01

Great news boozle!

I cried the first time I saw a good scan

Catlover2014 · 09/12/2014 07:11

Excellent news boozle! How many weeks are you now? A great start to scan week!!

Good luck for today bootles and just. It is an exciting time!

My scan is very early tomorrow morning so the scanxiety is kicking in now. I will officially be 10 weeks tomorrow.

Sorry I haven't been on here much still working those crazy long hours. Hugs to all the new girls and hugs for your sad stories. Looks like the girls are already giving lots of great info but feel free to PM me anytime if you want to talk.

Waves to barking so glad you have your plan ready now. The New Year cannot come soon enough if you ask me!!

XxX

Flen · 09/12/2014 07:19

Cat, Bootles and Just thinking of you today.

Justonemoretime · 09/12/2014 07:24

Virtual hand holding to scanees today. xxx

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bakingtins · 09/12/2014 07:35

bootles and just good luck.

Boozle80 · 09/12/2014 07:49

Oooo, Just, good luck too - I'm sending really positive vibes your way :)

bakingtins · 09/12/2014 07:57

welcome monten and newtothis hope you find all the answers and support you need.

longestlurkerever · 09/12/2014 08:13

Big scan day! Good luck Bootles and Just for today and cat for tomorrow. Will be thinking of you all.

Belleende · 09/12/2014 08:27

Good luck for today bootles and just I am predicting a clean sweep for scan week (regrets not asking for scan earlier in week). My zen approach mostly consists of candy crush.
march make sure you medicate before the sherry. Could get messy otherwise. Sounds like you are pretty much guaranteed to have a better festive season than last year that must have sucked in soooo many ways.
I am off to chair a meeting full of grumpy people today to try and get them to do stuff they absolutely should but that they really don't want to. I fear if they misbehave they will get the full wrath of bellende. Not strictly professional but beats taking it out on dp and it might just do the trick.

Justonemoretime · 09/12/2014 09:08

Grin 11.4 wks. All waving, dancing and hiccuping. phew!!!!!!

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Belleende · 09/12/2014 09:11

Yeahhhhh. In your face scan week.

TinyTear · 09/12/2014 09:17

hooray Just

bythesea82 · 09/12/2014 09:21

Woohoo just, really awesome news, enjoy every minute of today!
bootles good luck & cat for tomorrow x

Marchgirl · 09/12/2014 09:25

Yay! Brilliant news just. So pleased for you.
Best of luck for the other scansters today and tomorrow

cloudjumper · 09/12/2014 09:36

Hah! And the next 'good scan tick' goes to just! So so pleased for you. How are you feeling?!

Good luck for bootles and cat, keep 'em coming!

Justonemoretime · 09/12/2014 09:39

Thanks. Feeling relieved and a bit sick... Hopeful for lots more good news today and tomorrow! x

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tannyLoo · 09/12/2014 10:36

Brilliant Just! Is this a proper, never got this far before, moment? x