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BriansMum · 07/06/2011 21:07

Hope this works, a shiny new thread girls - come on in Smile.

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StitchingMoss · 22/07/2011 19:05

I had to laugh at 'wee friend' too! Grin

Welcome to the Secret Garden deb, lovely to have another 08er on here Smile. Can't give you any useful tips on potty training as I was crap at it - DS1 did it himself Blush. 1st time unmitigated disaster (February), back in nappies until April where he was dry day and night in 24 hrs and has had only 2 accidents since (both at GPs houses!). I strongly suspect DS2 is going to be nowhere near as easy!

London sounds amazing - if you were down longer I'd come and meet you, but if you're toddler-free you're not likely to want to be hampered by my two!

Leo, sorry to hear about the exam Sad.

PILs here this weekend so I'm off out tonight to watch Bridesmaids Smile.

WhatWouldLeoDo · 22/07/2011 19:54

Grin at interpretation of 'wee'. Yes, it means little round these parts!

WhatWouldLeoDo · 23/07/2011 21:47

Am so upset at news from Norway. As you probably all know, I'm a bit of a political activist - back in the day I used to go to Young Labour type summer camps and am devastated that those young people didn't have the same fun experience I did. Sad

StitchingMoss · 23/07/2011 22:32

It is indescribably tragic Leo, I cannot begin to imagine what those poor kids went through. And for what? Sad

disguisedeb · 24/07/2011 10:27

I can't imagine what terror they must have gone through.Such a peaceful country too, we've been a couple of times on holiday.

Gastonladybird · 24/07/2011 10:44

Just awful ESP as you say deb cos there seems to be such a peaceful nice way of living in Norway .

Nice to come home to more bad news about death of poor Amy winehOuse

Home now but knackered as was long day of travelling

Mudwiggle · 24/07/2011 12:59

Hi Deb - lovely to see you here in the garden. You're looking lovely. Wink I'm the penguin living down under. What a mad lady selling house. Only just think we've cracked TT here in the last week or so and I've probably jinxed it now by saying that. The only thing I can recommend is patience, lots and lots of patience.

Horrid Norway news. How could one man do so much? Sad about Amy too, although less shocking unfortunately.

Been horribly sick here with a bug of some sort, haven't left the house or been more than ten feet from the toilet. I so hope the boys don't get it. I haven't got enough strength back yet.

Stitching - Did you like Bridesmaids? I enjoyed it but was a little surprised at how risque it was. More Family Guy than the Simpsons IYKWIM.

We've just watched the last season of Spooks - soooo good that I'm sad we've watched them all. Now what next...?

Gastonladybird · 24/07/2011 18:00

Got home and amongst post was late birthday gift for e from my Sister- was a bit Hmm when opened it as IMHO not appropriate but what do you reckon see thread on Aibu http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/1265960-To-think-that-this-isnt-an-appropriate-gift-for-a-3-year-old book of abc of ways to die..

Gastonladybird · 24/07/2011 18:01

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StitchingMoss · 24/07/2011 18:09

Shock bloody hell Gaston, not my idea of a gift for a 3 yr old!!

Gastonladybird · 24/07/2011 18:25

Thats what I thought- should have posted here as was bound to be some loon someone who would say I was being precious. What was Sad was she gave dd another lovely book for birthday so I opened it with dd and then had to try and make excuses to take it off her/ not tell her what pictures were (I am sorry but there Is a world of difference Between explaining death, a book like say goodbye mog and this- lord knows I have not dodged the topic given recent events)

StitchingMoss · 24/07/2011 19:50

Mudwiggle, sorry to hear you're ill Sad. I loved Bridesmaids but KWYM about being risque - the opening scene was a bit Shock and I'm no prude! The only bit I hated was the throwing up scene - pointless and childish. The competitive friends speech was excellent - I know women like that too! Hmm

Just had MIL here - she told DS1 today that he should eat his salad because it's good for him and it wouldn't make him fat!! Angry Angry

Diet food for a 3 yr old - FFS!

Gaston, I think anyone on that thread who's saying that you're being precious is a loon. The book is clearly inappropriate for a 3 yr old (I would say any 3 yr old) who has recently had experience of death. Looks like a horrible book full stop tbh, but may be I'm missing the point Confused.

Gastonladybird · 24/07/2011 20:00

Your mil a loon is not news stitching ..

Mudwiggle hope you are on mend

disguisedeb · 24/07/2011 21:28

Mudwiggle, hope you're feeling better soon

Gaston - YANBU

Stitching - diet food for ds Shock what is your mil like?

Day 1 of Toilet training(proper) , not a bad start, no accidents until teatime then he was just so tired it all got too much I think. He'd gone 2 hours between wees in the day which was very good but at teatime wet himself twice in an hour. Nappy on for bedtime so we'll see what tomorrow brings, fingers crossed for another warm day in the garden.

Gastonladybird · 24/07/2011 21:39

That sounds promising for a first day ESP if only accidents when he was tired.

disguisedeb · 24/07/2011 23:35

Just watched "Alex a life fast forward" - I'm still blubbing, what an inspiration though but so, so sad. Anyone else watch it?

WhatWouldLeoDo · 25/07/2011 07:59

Hope you're feeling a bit better today Mudwiggle (and fingers crossed the boys don't get it).

Gaston I was very Hmm at that book. Not appropriate for a 3 year old generally, never mind in the current circumstances.

Deb, that sounds like a very promising first day. If he's already going 2 hours between wees then he must be ready. I hope you get another nice day in the garden. DS was seeing constantly on day one when he potty trained.

I didn't see that Life Fast Forward programme - what was it about? Mind you, if it features courageous/tragic/brave child type content I probably wouldn't be able to watch it. Since having DS I can't bear things like that with children.

We had a narrow escape from a nasty accident last night. We have glass mats on our table and I was wiping one down with a cloth (while it was on the table) and it sort of spontaneously shattered into hundreds of tiny fragments. It sorted of exploded, if that makes any sense, and glass flew around the room. DS was in the room but thankfully just further than the glass flew. It was at table height (head height for him) and I shudder to think what would have happened if he'd been any nearer. I got such a shock. I'm not really sure what happened, but another mat was on the table next to this one and I can only assume that they made contact slightly as I was wiping them down. I can't believe that glass table mats would shatter in that way though - If they were going to break I'd have expected them to break into fewer, larger pieces. I bought them from John Lewis, so I've taken some photos and will email them later.

Quick question on party etiquette - DS has been invited to a birthday party that he can't go to. The little boy came to DS's party and brought a gift - DH thinks we should send a gift to the other little boy anyway? We don't know the family or anything, just someone at nursery (who is leaving before the start of term). WWYD? I think there'll be a few parties over the years that he can't go to and it's an expensive habit to get into!

And, also on a party theme, DS has been invited to a fairies and pirates fancy dress party. And of course we don't have a pirates costume. Anyone seen any reasonably priced ones or suggestions for diy costume? I'm sure I've seen threads on pirate costumes on here before so off for a search.

Stitching - I'm really looking forward to your visit! Tell me, how are you getting to Edinburgh? Also, depending on weather and what we do, there is the potential for a bit of to-ing and fro-ing around - will you have a buggy for DS2 with you?

StitchingMoss · 25/07/2011 09:09

Life Fast Forward is about a 21yr old with terminal cancer who is determined to live every day to the max. Haven't been brave enough to watch it yet Sad.

Leo, I would only buy a present if I could go to the party -expensive otherwise!

Don't know how we're planning to get to Edinburgh yet - do they have P&R? We will definitely have a buggy for DS2! Talking of whom, got to go, he wants me to read a book with him!!

Gastonladybird · 25/07/2011 09:10

Agree re only buying a present if going to party.

Woke up and had more bleeding so trying to get checked out- hope it's nothing Sad

disguisedeb · 25/07/2011 10:22

Gaston, let us know how you get on, will be thinking about you

StitchingMoss · 25/07/2011 11:01

Oh gaston, hope you can have a scan today to put your mind at rest.

WhatWouldLeoDo · 25/07/2011 11:07

Gaston, I hope you've managed to get an appointment. Thinking of you.

Gastonladybird · 25/07/2011 13:00

Managed to get appt and heard heartbeat so good. Dr thinks over did it at weekend (despite best endeavors was some
Heavy bag/toddler lugging) so on take it way easy.
Dh keen we Get a Doppler - have resisted so far but may be easier than hours of worry . Anyone used one? Was always Hmm about them

WhatWouldLeoDo · 25/07/2011 15:55

Glad to hear it Gaston. Sounds like you need to take it super easy, so I hope you have your feet up.

I was always a bit Hmm over doppler. I always thought that it would be more likely to cause worry if I didn't hear the heartbeat etc, but that's not to say that if I had your history I might be more tempted. What's your gut feeling about getting one?

Stitching - yes there are a couple of park and rides I think. Probably a sensible option - traffic and parking worse than usual here during festival time!

Gastonladybird · 25/07/2011 15:57

My view exactly yours - I think would rather wait to get to see a dr (they will usually see you and would rather be a High maintenance pest getting proper reassurance than potentially stress re doing my own Doppler).

Deb had some thoughts re London for your big boys. What kind of thing do they like and do they mind walking?

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