Right you lot.
You have signed up to Bootcamp. It's not easy. It's not designed to be easy (although it's designed to be easy to follow - there is a difference!)
We have only just started week 5.
I have repeatedly warned that this isn't a very forgiving WOE. You need to stick to the rules, and be very strict about what you're eating and drinking.
Why would I bother to tell you that if there was no point to it?!
You can't cheat when you're low carbing to lose weight. It simply won't work. So don't be surprised if you're cheating and then you aren't losing weight.
If you can totally, 100% guarantee that you're following the rules, and you're still not losing weight, and you're not in weeks 3 or 4 (but bear in mind that it can also sometimes extend to week 5), then maybe we need to consider some different strategies.
Things to consider if it's not working for you:
- make sure that you really are eating a high fat diet, and make sure you're drinking enough water
- dairy - this is the key issue for many of us. Try cutting out dairy for a few days and see what happens
- being really strict about carbs; although we don't count them on Bootcamp, it's often the case that people have no idea about how many carbs vegetables actually have - use the vegetable counter on the spreadsheet, and weigh/count your veg/salad for a few days to make sure you're really keeping them under control
- make sure your carbs are coming mainly from veg/salad; look at everything you're eating, and see where carbs might be coming into play - e.g. mayonnaise, pre-prepared salad dressings, processed meats, etc
- try doing ubercamp for three days - this is a strict low carb/no dairy plan
- if you're having a particularly stressful time, are having trouble sleeping (either off your own bat or because you have some of those pesky small children), or if you're on some form of medication - you need to accept that this will have an impact on your weight
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stop weighing daily and stressing about your weight - everyone's weight fluctuates on a daily basis. This is entirely natural. If a daily increase sends you into a panic, then only weigh weekly. Consider not weighing at all, but using measurements, or an item of clothing, so that you can see your progress
- and finally, consider if low carbing is for you. Some people simply can't stick with it because it's too strict. For some people it doesn't seem to work. If you're convinced that it's not for you, and you've tried everything, then perhaps it's time to accept that you need to try something else? I hope that this won't be the case - but that's from a purely personal perspective. I wouldn't wish the gnawing hunger on anyone that comes from following a low calorie diet!
But please know - whatever your situation - there are many of us here who will try to help you, support you and comfort you through the process. We know it isn't easy.
Frankly, if it was easy, I'd be a bloody millionaire by now! 
to you all