afternoon everyone, i finally feel well enough to sit at the computer!
not for long though, just enough to update you on stuff and to say i hope everyone is ok
does anyone remember me talking about my plumber kickboxer friend who has always had a thing for me , and from time to time will try and act on it?
well on friday night i was in bed starting to feel worse and he texts me, basically trying to persuade me to go round and spend the night with him
i ignored it, then he messaged again asking if he had done anything wrong, so i replied asking him what kind of reaction was he expecting, when he hadnt been in contact for ages, let me down about fixing my boiler, ignored my texts etc, and then sends me a message acting like he can fucking buy me, and i also added i doubted my bf would like me to be upping and going round there all that aside,and i was ill to boot
he replied saying he wasnt interested in the bf, and he bet me £100 i wanted to go round cos i loved him more than dp
i replied saying he was not hte person i used to know and left it there
dp however decided he was v pissed off at how disrespectful he was to me and got my phone and copied the number, which resulted in him sending a couple of texts asking him wtf he thought he was doing speaking to me like that
fell asleep soon after that, but was up and down all night being ill, so about 5.15 i heard another message come in apologising to me for being so hideous, and to say sorry to my bf etc, which would have been fine , aside from the fact about 5 mins before he had also sent one to the dp basically telling him to back off from me!
dp was furious, i do hope we never bump into him, as he wont forget it
plumber did say he had been a twat for saying all those things but i dont see how in a million years, knowing me as he does, that he thought talking to me like that would have got him anywhere even if i had been single ffs
i did send a lengthy reply in the afternoon telling him that and havent heard anything back so i hope thats all done and dusted, the only thing i worry about is there is a chance we could bump into him from time to time, as we did on my birthday, because iknow dp wont forget how he spoke to me and will pull him on it
i have told him it isnt worth it as it makes not odds to us etc, but he is v protective of me if he thinks someone is taking the piss
especially this week, when he has been coming down after work, just to tidy up and look after me, cos the kids havent really felt so inclined, then going back to work and doing 11 hrs without being on call at night
he even had a bit of a moan at them last night cos he felt they should have been helping me more, and told them so, then felt bad about doing it lol
anyway today is the first day i have ventured out of the house since friday,and i think i am on the mend slowly
still not close to 100% but at least i am not doubled up in pain crying in bed ;)
hope everyone is ok and enjoying the sun i havent been able to